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writes:Hey Aunties and Uncles :) I was just wondering, out of the choice of 3 truly amazing guys, which would you go for? Guy 1: met him at a party last week, he is the same age as me (17), we had a lot of fun together just kissing but he is a virgin. I know relationships aren't all about sex but I've never been with a virgin before and I don't want him to feel under pressure. He told one of my friends he really likes me. Guy 2: I've known him for around 6 months, he is 20 though so we can't go out drinking together while I'm underage and that's what he mainly does in his free time, we got to know each other and I love spending time with him, but we have very little in common and so when we go out places there is poor conversation. Also, I feel intimidated by the amount of girls he has slept with and don't want to feel intimidated. However my mum thinks he's great for me which is a bonus. He told me he really likes me. Guy 3: I am totally in love with him, he's everything I've always wanted, he said - when I once woke up next to him he likes me HOWEVER he's 30 years old and the complications surrounding the both of us means that I would have to wait a while before anything could happen between me and him again. Everytime we see each other though it's really awkward and one of my friends commented on this, but just talking to him makes me feel amazing - he is so much fun; he acts like a teenager and we have so much in common. All three of these guys are single btw :)So which one? (Sex is legal at my age in the UK so there's no problem there)Cheers :) xxx
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reader, Inbetweener +, writes (22 April 2011):
Inbetweener is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, thanks for the replies; here's the update: guy 3 is not gonna work out which breaks my heart but it's out of my control. I'm going to a party with guy 1 tomorrow and I haven't heard from guy 2 in a few days. All that's left now is deciding between guy 1 and 2. Thanks guys :) xx
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 why do you have to pick one?be friends with all of themsleep with none.
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reader, higgy +, writes (18 April 2011):
Guy number 1! In my experience nothing good comes from a guy that drinks a lot (so 2 is out) and number 3 is WAY too old for you! Nothing is wrong with number 1 being a virgin. All that means is you can teach him what feels good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011): Think deep and hard. Maybe even make a list of pro's and con's of each guy and see who ends up coming out on top! I think that you truly do know which one you want but just can't let the few things you love about the other guys go. 3) if the 30 year old is still acting like a teenage boy that may not be what your looking for in a future husband or even boyfriend he may just be one of those fun guy friends for the best reasons 2) Even though he has slept with many girls you don't need to feel shy about it. Talking to him about it may help though, but if you can't even keep up a conversation how are you going to keep up a relationship? 1) I think the first guy is the best one for you for several reasons even though he may be a virgin and you may not be. He seems to be very nice caring and would be respectful of your body. He is also in your same age group which is always nice even though older men can be an appeal. It doesn't matter that he's a virgin because one day he won't be and you may not know this but guys are as self conscious about sex as girls can be. I hope this help sorry for so much writing and take my tips think about the stuff i said (:
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