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Dating: Help and advice

Why am I always so moody with him?

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2 April 2011 (F) - I am moody all the time and i take it out on my boyfriend, I dont know what is wrong with me, its just him, I'm fine with everyone else, please help as I have no idea why I am so moody!!!!!...

I have no confidence when it comes to women. I want a girlfriend. Advice please.

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2 April 2011 (M) - I'm somewhat confident when it comes to men. I can ask anybody for pretty much anything i want. However when it comes to girls then i dunno what happens. I've been clubbing quite a few times and i've noticed that i ALWAYS get at least two girls ...

What is he doing by staying in contact with his ex this way?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Why is my bf doing this??? How am I meant to trust him?? Me and my bf have been together for 8 months and spend most of our time together I have always had this feeling that h was still in love with his ex... i found a message sayin he still mi...

Did he never love her? Translation please.

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2 April 2011 (F) - What does it mean when someone asks a guy if he got back with his ex girl friend and he replies "I didn't get back with my ex, my ex is haunting me somehow." What does he mean by that? Does it sound like he ever loved her? Thanks..x...

She doesn’t 't want to date me, but I want to date her. How can I make it happen?

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2 April 2011 (M) - The girl I love said she loves me... here is the problem. She loves me but its not what I want, she won't date me and from what I have heard isn't dating nor does she want a relationship right now but she is spending a lot of time with this other ...

Are men turned off by women who wear braces?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Are men turned off by women who wear braces? I had them fitted last week, I really hate them and feel they make me look unattractive! My long distance boyfriend is due to see me again soon, we're in love but I'm worried he won't be attracted to...

How do I get it started with her?

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2 April 2011 (M) - How do you start to have sex with a girl? I just want to know. I'm a virgin and I have a girlfriend but I don't know what is the best way to start. do you just say do you fancy having sex or what?...

I find him irresistible and I think it is mutual. I know I shouldn't get involved. How do I handle this?

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2 April 2011 (F) - This time last year I was uncertain about whether my teacher 'loved' me or not and I thought it would blow over as soon as I left school. However my teacher also teaches at the college I go to and I teach sessions along with him once a week. I am m...

What does it mean when a guy seems to prefer jacking off to having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - I know every guy jacks off but why is it? What does it mean if he barely has sex with his girlfriend and always jacks off? I just don't understand!!!...

I'm losing faith in ever having a girlfriend. Can anyone help?

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2 April 2011 (M) - hi i live in the UK. i'm 17 and never had a gf. i'd love one but they don't care cause of my skin condition. i'm also a virgin looking to lose my virginity to another virgin. i've never even kissed a girl before and its come to the stage of being ...

I want him to start liking me. How do I do it?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Well i like a guy who is in 10th grade (im in 9th) we do track and field even though we are in two different groups he is in the distance group, I am a sprinter. Today i helped him with his block start because he needs to run the 400 in the next mee...

I should be on top of the world, but I'm too scared something will go wrong. Please help.

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2 April 2011 (F) - Before I explain, I will state that I have been diagnosed with depressive anxiety and I do have cognitive behavioral therapy which probably goes a long way to understand my problem. But right now I should be so happy and all I feel is sick and ...

Do you think this one night stand can turn into something more meaningful?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I met this guy one night through a friend, he was from out of town on a business related trip. We talked and were flirty and we wound up sleeping together that night. I didn't really have any intention of seeing him again bu...

I don't want to be just a sex buddy with this guy. Is that where this is headed?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Around seven months ago I met a man and we got along really well. I was in a relationship back then so we were just friends but I could tell that he liked me. While in my relationship, I met up twice with this guy strictly as 'friends' until I broke ...

He's my best friend, but I want more. Should I risk it?

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2 April 2011 (F) - I'm 19, female, and a freshman in college. It's been a great first year and just like high school, I have a small small group of close friends. Actually, only really one who I hang out with and do everything with. And I'm afraid that I've started ...

This is making me jealous...am I over-reacting?

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2 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend always invites his best friend and his best friend's girlfriend over to our place, and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend that I'm uncomfortable around his friend's girlfriend. He told me a long time ago she made a pass at him and ...

I'm not sure I want to bother with girls anymore.

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2 April 2011 (M) - Hey guys, Me and this girl liked each other for a while and we kinda went on a date. but nothing else really happened for a while. Then i met this girl and we hit it off quite a bit, flirted a lot u know. so i told the first girl that i liked th...

Does this look like love?

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2 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend means the world to me. i trust him with everything i tell him and he is the only one i can talk to about pretty much anything. we are always telling each other that we love one another, and he is always telling me i look beautiful, ...

Ex has come between me and my cousin. Am I wrong to have nothing to do with her?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Well, i went out with this boy for nearly a year, we were perfect for each other and we both fell in love with each other, we broke up because he started drinking and i didnt like it, but i still loved him for ages after the break up. i tell myself ...

Will going on a dating site make me feel better?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Your Open Question: What should I do? am really hurting:( ? I loved my ex boyfriend so much, but he lied, cheated on me and dumped me. He says he felt out of love with me:( last time I saw him I was really vulnerable and slept with him b...

Is there anymore I can do, or do I just need to get over it?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Ok yesterday I sent my boyfriend this really serious text pouring out my heart to him and letting him know that I will never break or hurt his heart. I sent him a text message saying:You really been on my mind this whole week. Like your the only one ...

Now that I'm ready, she has a boyfriend. What can I do?

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2 April 2011 (M) - Hi. i met a girl in school and we became very close that people thought we were dating but we weren't. she tried 2 make me more than a friend but i resisted because i was not ready 4 a relationship. Recently, I found out that she has a boyfriend and ...

I want to know what is best for a woman. How long should each stage of sex last?

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2 April 2011 (M) - For the women: how long should actual intercourse (not counting oral foreplay, etc.) last? I read that the answer according to a recent survey of sex therapists is 3 to 7 minutes, and very few people have actual intercourse for more than 12 min...

I'm worried about taking our relationship to the next level because I've never had an orgasm.

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2 April 2011 (F) - Hi guys, okay well me and my fella have been goin out not for about 8/9 week casually, dates, few kisses, he stays over at mine and i stay at his, but no sexual contact whats so ever, we've been taking things slow, which i think is real nice, he ...

I don't know if I should leave him or not. I love him. What do you think?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Right here we go... Me and my boyfriend's only been together 2 and a bit months We were mates before we got together He's pretty much stayed with me and my two kids from we first went out ( silly I know ) At first he was great I was so happy n fe...

He says he trusts me, but his actions say otherwise. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't like my friends because of how they behave when they go out. For example, a friend of mine tells my boyfriend early one night that she is engaged to "john doe." Later that night she tells me, drunk and in the front of my ...

I keep drifting from my LDR. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Hey there, I would be grateful for any help regarding my issue. I'm involved with a man whom lives long distance from me. Due to the distance, we rely heavily on technology to communicate with each other. However, this has become somewhat restric...

It's complicated. Is my ex still in love with me?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Hi there. Okay so I went out with this boy when I was 16 for 2 and a half years. We were each others first loves. Anyway things finished on a bad note and we lost contact for a while. However, we got back in contact later on. We became friends a...

I really like this girl. Any advice?

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2 April 2011 (M) - I'm 14 and there is this girl.... most of you will have figured out the rest she is different i really really like her any advice?...

He says it's just "friendly banter." How should I handle this?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Do you think I'm over-reacting? 2 am today my bf's mobile rang. I thought it was his alarm, which he'd asked me to set the night before, and got up to re-set it for the right time, but it was a text from a girl. I know I shouldn't have, but I read ...

She doesn't show her feelings in public and never says "I Love You."

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2 April 2011 (F) - im a lesbian and with my girlfriend a few months now who is a few years older then me. things are good she told her mum about us at last and was a bit slow at that to start with but ok now and said in time she will take me there. we have commitment ...

We had a fight, I walked out and now he has blocked my number

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2 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid Me and my bf of 3 years had a huge fight 2 days back. He started calling me really nasty names and i got angry and i walked out on him. I tried to call him yesterday and found out that he has blocked my number. I have sent one mail a...

He said he would like to be like Charlie Sheen and have a few girls on the side

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2 April 2011 (F) - Last night me and my bf of 8 months were in bed and he was talking about what he wants. Hes studying at uni and got just over a year to go. The job he is going to get from it he will be earning from 120 000 to 200 000. His job will mean him going ...

I feel used. Why does he change his mind overnight?

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2 April 2011 (F) - I met this guy last year when i joined uni he (lets take him as S) was my classmate, i was pretty much in my shell and very reserved and yeah more like a guy rather than a girl…. he slowly turned into my best freind the following year and he wa...

Should I try to go back to my ex or am I nuts to even consider it?

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2 April 2011 (M) - hi all and thanks for reading wife had 2 affairs says it was her backround child abuse .we are split up 12 months now i still have feelings for her.ive tried dating other women but lost job and losing my hair hair are making things hard for ...

Its been six days since I ignored his text, he hasn't responded since

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2 April 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2 months everything was going well we went out every weekend and started seeing each other in the week. Then he was really down last week so i invited him to do something and he didnt answer my text in 24 hrs so i ...

How do I know if he was faithful during our break?

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2 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 yrs, we have been going through a difficult time in our relationship, fighting a lot, lack of intimacy etc. We had a fight and took a 1 wk break of no contact, we live in different cities. How do I know if ...

How do you steal a heart in 30 days?

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2 April 2011 (M) - Extremely long story, shortened down a bit more.... I've moved on finally after so much trouble with the last women I have been around, but now, I met a Scottish girl from Scotland. She's about 3 1/2 years older than me (22 to be exact). ...

How should I answer him?

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2 April 2011 (F) - I'm really scared and confused. I don't know how to answer him. Yesterday he asked me to answer him whether I like him or not and he really need an answer. I said I don't know because it was april fool yesterday AND I'm really worried as he told me ...

Did I do the wrong thing in this relationship and is that why we broke up? Is it Karma?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

2 April 2011 (M) - Here's my situation. My ex, (and it was a long distance relationship), and I have now been broken up for over 6 months now. We were together for almost a year, and the entire experience has been difficult to say the least. It wasn't a typical brea...

He doesn't want to 'settle down' but does want to have a chat, about what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been inlove with this guy for 5 years. He said he loved me and he said that he meant it. We have been keeping in touch through the chat (messenger), telephone and writing (for 5 years). I do not get to spend a lot of time with him...

My girlfriend moved to be with me, but hates it here!

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2 April 2011 (F) - my girlfriend moved out here with her five-year-old son from another state over a year ago to be with me. she's from a small town and has never lived outside of it for any period of time in her life until she moved here. long story short, her son ...

We are both very shy. How do we overcome our reserve and start kissing?

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2 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and we were best friends for 4 years before dating. We've well broken the touch barrier with hugging and such and I have even made some moves myself by kissing him on the cheek multiple times. Th...

My guy loves to give me some love down there. Does that make him a freak?

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2 April 2011 (F) - In discussing how much he loves going down on me, he said: "That's when I take in how beautiful you are" What did he mean by that? Is this dude a freak?...

My boyfriend is not 'good in bed'. How can I effect some improvements?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - i really need help with my bf we have been together for a long time he is an absolutely amazing person but in bed he sucks and he also isn't really open about things the only plus is that he loves to give oral but that's not cutting it anymore. i ...

I do love my boyfriend. Is it cheating when I stop to talk to other boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - i am 19 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. i know i love him sooo much but whenever i meet a new guy, or talk to any other guys, i feel like cheating. i never have cheated before and i dont think i ever will but ...

Will she come back to me when he sees through her new boyfriend who's a player?

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2 April 2011 (M) - So two nights ago i was at the gym talking to a friend i met at my ex's party and we were going on and on. Then i told him to tell my ex that im sorry for what i have done and that all i wanted was for her to be happy. He told me that he doesn't ...

In what ways do others realise when a boy is in love with a girl?

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2 April 2011 (F) - If i have already noticed, do you think others will notice too? Can a boy be in love with a girl without anyone knowing?...

How do I engineer things so he will like me instead?

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2 April 2011 (F) - I realy like this guy but no one knows. i want him to know but he likes one of my best friends (his ex) and i dont know if i should tell him. i know that my friend wouldn't care if i liked him because she has dated almost all of my friends ex's ...

Does this sound like he's interested? Should I tell him I am?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, You probably get questions like this all the time, but i honestly don't know what to do anymore. I like this guy - a lot - and have for almost a year. Problem is he has a girlfriend. I never used to like him that much but it's just in...

Does this mean love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - if you're kissing a boy and you put your hands down his pants and start to masturbate him, and he starts to breathe really hard and heavy and put his head on my shoulder, what does this mean? and can a boy be in love with a girl but not tell any...

Our "friendship" is hurting me, so I'm going to send him this note. Would like advice.

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2 April 2011 (F) - After a lot of thought I realized i am not over my ex bf and his friendship offer is just a road of deception. Perhaps he was thinking about a casual friendship but I am hurt all the time because his indifference, regardless he says he loves me and ...

I can't ask him straight out. Is there another way you can tell if they're interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Hi , I have this problem i like this guy and i think he likes me, we have had a thing in the past so i know him quite well! although we have drifted and only come back into contact recently. He's shy when it comes to liking girls and is not very ...