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Dating: Help and advice

Should I give him the card I wrote telling him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hello, there is this guy who has told that he has feelings for me in the past. the problem is that we don't talk to each other very often because it is kind of complicated. we don't talk to each other on a regular basis and we don't go out on dates ...

Whenever I ring or text my girlfriend these days, I just get short, blunt answers...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - Whenever I ring or text my girlfriend these days, I just get blunt answers. Before the last few days I was getting really lovely texts and phonecalls from her, as if she was really eager to hear from me and was really chatty. But it doesn't feel lik...

My boyfriend is angry and moody all the time...I am no longer attracted to him sexually and considering leaving...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I just need some helpful advice. I am in a relationship which is about 2 and a half years old. In the beginning things were fantastic, i had met the love of my life, the man i had always dreamt of. We moved in together, which went very well f...

My dream man still lives with his ex and it's destroying our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Me and this guy have been dating for nine months now and he's a great catch. He ticks all the boxes and fullfills practically everything I ever wanted in my 'dream man,' but never really believed existed. And to top it off, when he came into my life ...

The more he hurts me the more I want to cheat on him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm back with more relationship drama, i'm 18, i shouldn't be dealing with this, but anyway the last time i was on here it was about my best friend and i and our break up. call me crazy or stupid i probably am for this but i'm back with ...

My boyfriends wants to have sex with another girl!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend, well hes a good guy over all but he has said and done some stupid s***, first of all he does say Im pretty and he loves me and he takes me out but then... he has this friend that he told me with these exact words "I want to f*** her, ...

I don't know how to gain my parents trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I don't know how to gain my parents trust. A month ago, my boyfriend and I were making out in his room. And his parents caught us. So they over exaggerated it to my parents, and they think we were having sex. Its been a month, and his parents dema...

His parents won't accept the union and I am heartbroken. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I'm madly in love with this guy, but we can't marry because our parents wont accept the union, it's more his parents. He's not even allowed to have female friends, if they found out about me, they'd disown him. We've broken up lots of times bu...

He won't go against his parent's wishes for me. I don't know what I will do without him.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I'm a 18 yr old girl in love with an 24 yr old guy. We met on a social networking site but havent met each other personally as we both stay in different cities in the same country though. Our's is a very clichèd tale but unfortun...

How do I ask, "Are we in a relationship?" without him feeling pressured.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - How do i ask him if we are in a relationship without him feeling i am pressuring him. I have been dating this guy for a month now and we get on really well. we text everyday but sometimes when he feels awkward he will ignore me for days. we met...

Is he talking of marriage just because I am planning to leave?

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5 April 2011 (F) - I dont think he will be moving on too for his Msc. I think he will settle for a job in Mauritius. Besides he changes ideas quite quickly. i wonder if the fact that am going is making him say all the sweet words and plans of marriage...thanks for ...

Should I take this friendship to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - There is this guy who i have been spending time with recently, quite a lot of time actually but always in the company of friends. We also text very frequently. i have known him for years and i have started to like him a lot, we seem to get on very ...

Should I tell him when he give me butterflies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I was just wondering, do guys want to know when they are turning you on? Only because my boyfriend sometimes does this thing when he starts drawing on the back of my hand with his finger and then he sometimes runs his hand gently down my arm and it ...

I'm confused and need help. I have a great BF, but I really like the "player" I've been texting.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Well, I have an amazing boyfriend, that I really like, and have liked him for years. It feels so right to go out with him. But there is one problem. I've been texting this other guy. I really like him too. He makes me feel so special and lov...

At my age are there any legal or moral grounds where your parents can forbid you to date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Are there any justifiable legal or moral grounds on which your parents can forbid you to date at the age of 19? I mean, if you still live with them but never bring your boyfriend home (so nothing happens under their roof) and you're sensible ...

I'm confused and wonder if she is using me until she finds someone else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - I met a girl on a dating site 8 weeks ago. We only see each other every weekend, I stay at hers, cause we live over an hour away from each other. Every thing seemed brilliant until today when she let me take away her laptop to fix. I found she...

Dating two men, one of whom is married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I'm dating two men at a time, the more caring one is a maried man nd d other one is stil single and has promised to marry me. I love them equaly. What shoud i do now?...

I'm jealous of all my friends who have relationships! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - Hey there... I'm 21 years of age.i wanna tell you my problem here we go... I don't have any relationship and contact ever in my life time, even i didn't kiss lip, this makes me anxious and strange. where comes these problem? I don't know... When i ...

I'm not cut out for FWB relationships, can I get my new guy to change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hey, I've never done this before, but I just have a question. I've recently "split up" with my fuck buddy, and it broke my heart, because I started being in love with him, and as soon as I told him, he started withdrawing and not returning my cal...

She knows I like her and because of this she stays away from me, how do I get her attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - i really really like this girl who knows that i like her....and bcoz of this, she doesnt really interact with me much....we were kind of friends before...she talks to my friends much more than me and that makes me feel sidelined. I dont like it...

Is it normal to act crazily for love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - I am always a man who fall deep in love, and once I get somebody I love I feel like running crazy for the person. I do all sorts of things in my capacity to make my partner happy. I can call her 10 times a day just to tell her I miss her and hear ...

Would a guy who is not interested in a girl behave this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I just wanna get some opinions on this. Will a guy who's not interested in a girl romantically bother pouring sauce in her dish, opening doors etc? i mean opening doors is fine but are pouring sauce and taking food also considered gent...

I think girls are running away from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - i broke up with my gf last year.i didn't want but it happened. I'm alone and it's very hard to bear.I'm going to be crazy. last month i suggested friendship to a girl but she rejected. i tried to contact with my ex gf but she is friend with anot...

I told him I wanted to give it a go but he would not leave his girlfriend. Now he is acting all jealous when I am with another guy! What is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Ok so i am really confused at the minute and im hoping for a little advice. I have been friends with this guy for a number of years now but in the past two or three we have gotten a lot closer. I have liked him as more than a friend for even longer ...

She gave back the necklace I gave her - does she hate me?

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5 April 2011 (M) - i like this girl for a long time and just be friend now. so we are friends for only 2 month. we like to message each other. one day she said that she want a present but only for a joke. i give her a necklace and she said its too fancy or expensive. ...

He thinks I would make a "great wife", what does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now. we're both 26. The other day we were talking about how people in my middle eastern culture are always in search of a mate. He said that he bets that I would have a lot of offers (for marriage), I said ...

Girl I'm interested in has been avoiding me since we had lunch? Is she not interested anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - I met a girl in one of my college classes, and ended up having a big crush on her after a few days. For a while I thought she was sending me interesting signals (i.e. jumping in on my conversations with the professor, laughing at every joke I made, ...

Should I stop seeing boyfriend or friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - 40 F he is 45. Friends and later date for 18 months. Sex monotonous, he only wants to be 1 initiating. I also sex 35 yr guy who is a family friend=FWB for a yr. Sex with fwb is gr8 and fulfilling, bt he is in a steady live-in-love. 2gether we ...

Do girls mind if you have yellow teeth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - ok I really really really really love this girl 1 month older than me in school. and I have yellow teeth but I brush them everyday 2 times a day. :(. what do most girls do? : care bout what people look like. or. think about how funny and stuff ...

He really likes me and doesn't want to lose me, but now his ex is back in the picture. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - ok so i met this guy im seeing a week ago.. yeah we havent known each other long at all, but we had instant chemistry.. he has been coming to my house every morning when he gets off work and he crawls in my bed and holds me, its like we have known ...

We can't see each other because her grandmother is strict

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - i got a girlfriend that loves me and i love her back but we cant see each other or be together because the grandma is strict. but i still wanna make it work what should i do ...

Now I have a boyfriend, my ex FWB tells me he's jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I've had a fwb type situation going on with this guy for about 3 years now. Not going to lie, I felt deeply for him and probably always will, and despite him wanting to keep things very casual I know that he felt something for me too. I started ...

He can't understand I only want to be friends with him what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am currently dating someone and I cold be happier I'm crazy about him but I still have a guy friend of mine still pawing at me I tried telling him and sending hints but still as soon as i starting seeing mt boyfriend he's been asking ...

Boyfriends best friend- its ME or HIM!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, My name is jess and im 18. My boyfriend is 17 lets call him brenton. So currently we have been dating for about 8 months. We dated in highschool but he dumped me. We were always friends though. Now brentons got this friend call...

Elopement right for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been datikng for 11 months we worked with each other for a year. We both got out of bad 4 year relationships and our first night together (although it was the most amazing night of my life) we agreed to not be in a ...

I love her but she's been with alot of people

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - hi fellow peers of cupid, this is dimario, Ive been stuck in this situation of good and evil emotions. how do you react if the person that your with has been "with" physically allot of people before you? my significant other the one i love with my ...

Should I just slip this guy my phone number?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - So there is a guy at work (typical start I know) who is really cute and I'm interested in. He comes in every Tuesday for music and I will admit I've spoken maybe 4 or 5 words at the most to him-mostly because I don't really get an opportunity to ...

Is his mom getting too nosy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Okay so I've been in a relationship with this wonderful guy for about two and a half months. He's great, and his family adores me. Both of us being hispanic its not uncommon for our parents to hangout and have drinks and such. However, one of these ...

Boyfriend is in jail for violating probation, I'm doing all I can to help, but apparently I'm the "heartless evil bit*h". Why is he doing this to me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend was sentenced to jail for 30 days for violating probation. His urine came up diluted, which means there was low levels of the natural substances in pee, indicating he added water to his pee sample. however, he swears he did nothing to ...

Pregnant, BF doesn't want anything to do with the baby, and this might be my only chance to conceive because of a family history of medical problems...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - so im 19 years old and just recently broke up with my boyfriend after being with him for 2 years, we were madly in love aand i still care so deeply about him, but i broke up with him because all we ever did was fight and argue about everything. i...

Why would a guy want to hurt a girl who adores him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Why would a guy wanna hurt a girl who loves him and adores him? ? Every time a girl will meet a guy he's so sweet, you look past his flaw cos your a nice person. You love him and would do anything to make him smile, always there when he nee...

I think he was shocked that I asked him out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - meet this man that i really like an gave him my number . i thought we was both inestrest in one another .but when i gave him my number an i said to him would you like to go out an eat sometimes . his answer was i do not live here . which i knew this ...

So where is the line drawn with girlfriends and male friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - So where is the line drawn with girlfriends and male friends? my girlfriend occationaly texts guys she met on vacation. Shes also facebook friends with them and when they wished her happy birthday they used pets names for each other. Also a bunch ...

I have such a low self esteem because of my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hi I am in urgent need for some counselling for a very bad siutation I have been in for 6 years - stemming around my relationship with my bf - now currently ex again I am have been putting this off for a while but now I am all alone over here...

Boyfriend and I have completely opposing views on porn. Is this a possible deal breaker?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm 24 and I've been with my boyfriend, who's 25, for about four months and all had been going great; he's kind, caring, generous and always puts me first. However, I noticed on his internet browser history a couple of week...

Girl I'm dating hasn't contacted me since Friday at noon?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - So I've been dating this girl for a month and everything has gone really well. Nothing i can think of could turn our relationship bad. Shes always laughing and smiling when shes around me. We normally have lunch dates together, and then we go to ...

How can I stop wanting to date my friend who's already in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - I have this friend, we met about a month and a half ago maybe? She's smart, funny, gorgeous (one of her sisters is even a model) anyway, we talk all the time and always have fun when we hang out together and maybe its just the natural guy ...

Been with my b/f for 5 years but have now fallen for my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I am a 20 year old female. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years and I love him, he might be the one. My problem? My best friend is a girl and I have fallen for her. I never considered myself bi until now. What do I do? I asked my ...

Am I being unfair to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

5 April 2011 (?) - i need some advice. i left my husband a year and a half ago and i have had a lot of problems geeting on with my life.I couldn't be with hubby anymore because he was violent and i feared for my life. I thought after i got out that i would have a bf ...

Does this sound like my boyfriend is cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - okay so my boyfriend always tell me he loves me like a billion times a day. yesterday he was texting me and stoped texting me at 7:16 i think and then didnt text back untill about 9:00 or something. i asked him why and he said that he went with his...

My gf talks about her guy friends all the time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (M) - Hey Ladies and Gents, Here's the scope. I want advice on what I can do to get over this or just not let it bother me. I have a gf(yea!!) and she talks about other guys(boo!!) in conversations with each other. I understand its okay for her to have ...

Do you think not talking to him will change his mind about how he's acting and he'l come chasing after me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - Lately, me and my now ex boyfriend have been haveing relationship problems... we have had a rough year, from cheating, lying, breaking up, losing babies... and it seems right when we get to the point where our relationship is healing... he breaks up ...

Which ex should I choose now that they both want me back? The hot and sweet one who lives far away or the funny one who lives close by but is a big flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 April 2011 (F) - I can't choose between these two guys. I used to date both of them at seperate times of course and now they both want me back. One is way hot and sweet and I know he loves me but he lives far away so I barely get to see him. Also he's broken u...