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writes:help, i love my boyfriend by lately only seeing him twice a week and its only for about 2 hours each time. he has a baby with someone else and i understand he has her weekends so i dont see him, and then works all week and then gym after work so is hard for him to fit in seeing me. but its really getting me down and i understood all this when he found his new job and thought i could deal with it but cant. he sees his ex (the babies mother) more then me, and when i do see him we just say in my house dont go nowhere. iv been with him 7 months now and only been somewhere with him 1s and that was our 1st date. i suggest the cinema and he say 'yes we'll go' but when i ask when his answer is 'im tired we will soon' it doesnt feel as if im in a relationship with him anymore, we have tryed splitting but all i did was cry and hated it, but now we are back its getting me down again it feels everything else comes before me, ye get his baby comes first, but hes putting the gym, and everything else before me. the other day him and his ex went to get food together when he was suppose to be seeing me, and then only seen him for a hour. iv tried talking to him about it but all i get is 'ye but when i see you all u want is sex' and i ask if its going to get easier and he says 'i dont know prob want', he havnt even told his parents about me, or anyone. its really killing me i love him and would rather see him once a week then nothing at all but is getting to me help ???
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reader, person12345  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 If he wanted to see you he would make time for you. Putting the baby first, sure. But working out at the gym? Refusing to go out with you? This guy doesn't take you very seriously as a girlfriend. You should find someone else who will. I know it's hard to split up with someone, but it's better to be with someone who cares about you.
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reader, maofone +, writes (18 April 2011):
He's with his child's mother. There are so many obvious clues. He doesnt take u out in public and doesnt make time for u,but he does for her and the baby. Let him go,find some1 who makes you top priority
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reader, Partyboy123  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 hey,He CLEARLY does not give a damn about you, if he really cared for you, those things wouldn't come first.... thats like me with my girlfriend, i see her at school everyday, but she doesn't really show me any affection/attention (she talks to her friends while i'm around and stuff), and on weekends we hangout usually only one of the days, because the other days she has so much homework to do and she says "i need to get it done", when yet it should take 2 hours to do the homework, it takes her 8 or more... so i get shafted, and then she says "im sorry i really wanted to hangout", even though i made plans like 2 days in advance with her and she was fine with it, then cancels the day of haha...if you love him, this will blow over.hope i helped
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