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Dating: Help and advice

Should I trust that he'll come home loving me or should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months now. He is in the Marine Corp and is currently on a deployment. He and I knew each other from high school, and have been good friends for years before we started dating. He had d...

Is the perfect person out there.. Or should I resolve myself to a life alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. He couldnt deal with the fact i wanted to wait til i was married to have sex. He told me he couldnt be that person for me. I decided to be strong and walk away. Just wondering are there any like minded guys...

Weird pushy friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I have known a group of women for over 20 years. we are very close friends, they are all married but me. started dating a guy one of the women introduced me to and we hit it off in a big way and are still together. problem is one of the women (the ...

G/f hates the idea of me going away for a year to college!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - hi all. me and my girlfriend's relationship is amazingly strong. we love being together and we are in different schools but the relationship works for sure. no problems. I finish this year and would like to go study 2 years . unluky it's ...

The communication between us has gone way down...did he lose interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I met a guy on Plenty of Fish, we texted back and forth for a month with pretty standard 'get to know you' questions, e.g.: what would you bring on a desert island, what are your parents like, etc. After a few weeks of texting and establishing that ...

It physically hurts when my boyfriend and I have sex, and I don't like his reactions to this. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

20 April 2011 (?) - when my boyfriend and i have sex, he is really big and it hurts. it hurts so much that i often scream quite loud during sex. its painful and worrying but its what he does which is also worrying. when i am screaming he either puts his hand over my ...

She says she loves me very much, but why is she still with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - I'm going to give the short version: I was with the love of my life for 2 years (we had been best friends for many years before that though, so we were very very close) She broke up with me because things were getting complicated. I'm graduating ...

What shape type do men like best on a woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - What Shape do Men Prefer??? my measurements are 38-35.5 to 36-43 Bust 38. Waist 35.5 to 36. Hips 43. (Trying to lose weight) lol! I wanted to know, I read all over the internet how the "hourglass" is the perfect female form and what...

Experiences in dating foreign women?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - Ok...so I have finally reached the point where I am literally forced to realize the great bulk of American women are not material for marriage. However, there is a great alternative and I have gathered enough information to set about it next summer ...

Guy turned a 180 and is now ignoring me..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Sorry, this is long! I've just never been in this position. Okay so my friends introduced me to this guy about a month ago. We’re both 20. I guess he went to our high school freshman year, but I didn't remember ever seeing him. I guess like a month ...

I've realized that I've been trying to guilt her back into a relationship with me. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - I had been going out with my ex for 3 years. we broke up late last year because at the time she was moving away to the UK and now I have moved to the UAE for 7 years. We still chat but I still have feelings for her, though I think she has moved ...

I think I'm in love with him, and I don't want to regret keeping it a secret!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - There's this guy that goes to my school and I'm falling for him. He's not in my class and I'm only going to see him for one more month and I don't want to think about what will happen if I never tell him how I feel. A few weeks ago, one of my c...

Do you need to have sex to love somebody?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I am a virgin. My boyfriend of 22 months is not. I love him to bits but he has said he cant love me until we have sex. He says theres an emotional connection there for him when it happens. I have always wanted to wait til i was married but he tells ...

Ever since she lost her virginity, she has become less interested in sexual activity!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - my girlfriend and i have dated for over 2 years now, and in the begginning it was awesome we couldn't keep our hands off each other. the problem is she was "virgin". i enjoyed the stuff we did instead , anal is awesome. but ever since she lost her ...

Sometimes I wonder if he’s really into me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - He never calls me pretty, he rarely wants sex, I don’t feel very desired, I used to love getting little messages every morning but they never happen anymore. We used to seem to turn each other on big time, but now he doesn’t seem pushed. I’m very ...

Think I'm falling in love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hello Right!Im 16 and there is guy who 19 and I think im falling in love with him. But the problem is that when ever I go round to the house, out from the blue I get really shy and don't talk or when my mum says were going there I get Butt...

A smile from the guy I like - does this mean he is approachable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hey everyone! I've been wondering this question and asked someone friends but want your opinion. Probably the stupidest question someones asked but in all seriousness and honesty..... And i have no idea why i'm interested in knowing this i just do!? ...

How do I stop being so shy and meet more people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - Well to start off im a very shy person and its hard for me to meet new people. This being said the only women i end up talking to is my friends girlfriends. The problem is i end up falling for them and it never ends up bad. So my question is how do ...

I feel like some girls are out of my league, do girls ever feel this way too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - ok, well lately ive been having more attractive girls flirt with me and stuff, but when i was 17 (20 now) i didnt really think i could get with very attractive girls. but now it seems like they are coming around more often, but sometimes i still ...

Is it ok for us to still be bf and gf even though we don't live together anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hello.. I need unbiased advice.. My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old. We have been together for a little over 2 years now. After a year of dating we decided to move in together. At first we had a lot of problems but eventually we start...

Do you think it's possible to fall in love with someone you have been in a relationship with for 5 months?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I am interested in hearing other people's opinions on this- do you think it's possible to love someone you have been in a relationship with for 5 months? I have been with my boyfriend for this long but really feel like we have a strong connection. ...

I'm a virign and he's not.. so with my inexperience, what could I do to keep him satisfied, without going all the way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - So i'm a virign and my boyfriend clearly isn't.. We're very open with each other when it comes to talking about sex and past relationships (though i don't really like hearing about the girls that he's slept with in the past).. We've gone as ...

Why won't he say he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for six months and he told me that he's never felt this way about anybody before. Although he doesn't get me flowers or gifts like my previous boyfriends did, he's treated me better than all of them. We've met each others ...

How can I distance myself from her, enough, but not too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - Hello, My girlfriend is out of town for a few days, but the whole time we have been dating, she has not really shown me that she wants to be with me, she only says she does. Examples: she does not like sharing feelings i tell her i am going ...

How can you tell when a guy is being genuine???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - How can you tell if a guy is feeding you lines, or is actually interested??? I'm talking about when you first meet someone, not while you are dating someone. ...

Am I reading the signals wrong or does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Ok so I want to know whether you think this guy likes me: We are studying together at uni for an assignment. At first we were just studying when we met up. But now we have been hanging out longer and longer (and not getting much study done). The...

I really like him but I find him too 'touchy'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Okay so im new to the whole dating thing (late bloomer) i'm 17 and im dating a 20-something year old,so i haven't told anyone about him we havent gone out on a proper date yet because i always avoid making time, but we tend to just spend time ...

How can I get these other guys off my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4762 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - so...i mean this is kinda hard to explain so try to follow? basically what happened was: My boyfriend and I had been together 9 months and 14 days when we broke up last October. We broke up because I caught feelings for another guy. I left my c...

I'm in a relationship, is it normal to have feelings for someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - So quick question, I am in a relationship, its been on the rocks for a while but I;ve been trying to fix it, and she;s constantly telling me I'm not the one and she doesn't understand why I stay. Well I met someone and we got on well together but I ...

Soulmates or should we not be together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - We have been together for about 10 months now. The feeling and chemistry is very strong right from the beginning. Deep down, we just know that 'we belong together' but we can't just work it out. We are good to bring out the best in us, and also the ...

This is a rocky relationship. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hi I am 43 years old and my partner is 48. Tonight we had an argument and I am wondering if we should break up for good? He openly admitted tonight that he chats and flirts with other women but is only interested in me cos he loves me...I am a very ...

The place I work at part-time has clients that are addicts....and I think I somehow fell in love with a guy there!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - The place I work at part-time has clients that are addicts. I'm not a counselor, and I don't talk to them about their problems or issues or anything, but even with my job I have to remember my boundaries, at least for a certain length of time. ...

I'm getting impatient. Is this insecurity or being non-committal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - ive been dating someone for 2 years. we see each other all summer and when he is home for holidays, etc. (im in high school, he is in college) we work together in the summers and get along great. we have the same morals and values and we love ...