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Dating: Help and advice

Too many guys! And which one to choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I am in my first year at university, and while it is going great, I am finding all the male attention a bit overwhelming. It seems every guy I talk to is interested. Currently there are two I am potentially interested in myself, while ...

Should I get together with him, and should I tell him about me and his brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I share a flat with Four guys one of which is my cousin. So I'm interested in two of them and my cousin has told me they both really like me. Last month me and guy A were alone and it got really intense really quick an we ended up having sex. Just ...

How can I match up to all the women he's been with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I don't know how to deal with this. You see my boyfriend has had many girlfriends before me, and even though we've been together for two years it still bothers me. Knowing all the girls and guys he's been with and that he did sexual things with ...

I told the guy I'm dating to slow down, was that the wrong thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and we really like eachother. Recently while we were making out he made a go for my boobs and from there it got a bit too intense for me. So I pulled back and told him that I didn't want it to go any ...

2 men, 1 confused girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend and he is everything I have always wanted with a boyfriend and what I want in life his family is amazing to me. However I had a fling with my work college before me and my boyfriend got together me and this guy had been close ...

Why do boys act so possessive?

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8 April 2011 (F) - why is it i can get a boyfriend really easily .....but i dont want one cuz they act too possessive with me..... why do they act so possessive?????...

Is there something wrong with me? Why can't I find someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - I feel so alone in my life right now. It's mainly because I'm 30 and I still haven't met the right person for me who actually really does want to be with me. I've been out with a few girls but something always seems to happen or go wrong, like I get ...

When I'm alone with a female I become speechless!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Dimario Here, Yet Again. Well i have a problem with females. when im around people a group in general i am usually a really social person. but i noticed when im alone with just female(s) i find myself speechless. literally it feels like the words ...

Do you think this could be the start of the end of our relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - my partners mum passed away yesterday morning. I met him at the hospital to comfort him, went back to his brothers house after- put my arm around him on the couch but when we got home he told me to save it for when we're alone(he usually doe...

What do men want to hear during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - What are the things a man wants to hear during sex? Dirty talk? What is the most turn on? ...

Should I be patient and wait for him to fall in love with me, or should I run now to avoid a broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm looking to hear what people think about something I am worried about with my boyfriend of 6 months. We get on really well, especially when it's just the two of us together (he can try too hard to impress his friends sometime...

I like her and don't know whether I should contact her on Facebook or not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - i went out to a bar with one of my mums friends daughter it wasn't really a date but i really like her and i got the feeling she liked me i didn't get her number but i found her on faceboook but im not on it and i don't know if i should just add her ...

Why am I obsessing over this guy in another country?

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8 April 2011 (F) - I am 18 and obsessed with this guy that lives in America and I have been talking to him for a year online and the time I started talking to him there was a lot going on with my family and I had this idea in my head that I would go over to him and I ...

We fought over housecleaning and he walked out. How do I make him understand?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Ok, living with my boyfriend is killing me! Lately we have been arguing because he doesn't clean up after himself. I do all the cleaning and I don't mind seen as I don't work as much as him but the guy does nothing and when he eventually does ...

One ourtcome of casual sex may be incest

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - This is an interesting point I've been thinking about for a while and am curious to see what anyone else has to say. It seems like more and more it is becoming socially acceptable to have children outside of marriage, even to have multiple childre...

I have fallen for my online friend. I don't think he feels the same. Should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - hi i am 22 years old and i finally met the guy i was talking to for over 2 years..we got to know each other online through a common friend,started as texting but then we started talking everyday!..and we finally met,he came down to my city for 3 ...

I told her I used drugs in the past and she broke up with me. How do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Just recently I told my girl that I used to smoke marijuana, and because of that she said she doesn't want anything to do with me. She left and said that she can't be with a druggy. I was smoking before I met her and quit because I met her and she ...

Do I just ask her out or do I tell her I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - alright, well there is this girl at my college and i really like her and i really want to ask her out but there are a few problems 1) we are right in the middle of our exam period and 2) we live in different cities. So my question is i really want ...

I've been out of the dating scene and now feel awkward. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Hi everybody! This year of my life has really been full of crazy things, but the saddest thing about it is that my girlfriend I've had for the longest time finally broke up with me. Yes, it does make me sad, but seeing as we're still real...

I had sex with him and now I am worried about a few things. Need advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Hi! So i was a complete idiot. I am 17 and where i work this new lad started who was 21. Instantly we clicked, and i really liked him. Of course i barely knew him. But he spoke to me online and we met up and the 4th day i kissed him and i was so h...

Can I satisfy and get her pregnant with this size?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - dear mam i have penis in 5.8" and girth 5.5" is this penis can fully satisfy a women and get pregnancy with this size of penis ?...

Need suggestions on how to win her back while she is dating someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - alright i know what ur gonna say do u really want ur ex back. Shes a good girl im just wondering how to show her that im not possessive. She broke up cuz i was supposedly possessive. I realize im gonna be who i am and if she don't like me again fuck ...

I am concerned that my GF is cheating on me with a male coworker. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Im in a lesbian relationship of 2 and a half yrs. My girlfriend and I have been going through a lot of bs lately. She is my best friend we talk about everything. I havent been able to take her out lately due to financial issues. She has recently got ...

I am dating my supervisor. We are discrete. Should I stay at this job or move to another?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I am in a weird situation here. I work as a nurse aide and my supervisor and I have been seeing each other for two weeks now. He is so sweet to me. He always tells me how pretty I am and brings me flowers. When we are at work we keep it ...

He kills the mood when he asks me how long it is going to take. Should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has tried to get me to orgasm a few times. Every time he does, he ends up stopping halfway through the process and asking me how much longer I'm going to be. It frustrates and even offends me to no end because when he says that, it ...

Am I his mystery girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - im 18/f hes 19/m i apologize in advance cause its really long but i figured you'll need as much info to help with the situation; The last 4 months i have become really close with a guy i consider my best friend. I know as cliche as it i...

I am secretly dating my cousin. Now her sister is threatening to tell our family about it unless we have sex with her, too!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Ok, My cousin and I have been dating for close to a year without either of our families knowing or finding out. But just recently, her younger sister came forward to us about knowing about our relationship. She's threatening to tell our respective ...

Should I tell my friend I dated his sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Hi all, I had been seeing my friend's sister after she came onto me over Christmas. I had liked her for a long time. She told me that she had wanted me for a long time which felt good.We had several conversations in which she and i discusse...

Girlfriend says I need to give her more space. I am not sure what it means for our relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - I'm feeling really down at the moment. I was getting to know a really wonderful girl, and then the last two months things have gone from talking daily, to it appearing like me texting her is a nuisance. She told me we need not speak daily, tha...

Should I leave her? Ten years, I have done all I can to appease her. Sex is rare. Is this fixable?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Hi everyone! Sorry for this long text, but I want you to understand my situation better, so I can get a better advice, I need it! I have been having this problem for a while now and desperately need advice. I am a 27 yr old guy and my gf is...

My girl friend exhausts me mentally so I broke up. How do I deal with all my negative feelings at having to do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4757 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Two days ago, I sent a goodbye letter to a girl who I love. The reason I did it is after 6 months of chasing after her I feel mentally exhausted, so I have to said to her is the end of our friendship. Yesterday, I went up and tried to talk to her, ...

Why can't I return my partner's physical affection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - i cant cuddle or kiss my partner when he cuddles me. i keep my arms down when he leans in for a kiss and i turn my head. he has noticed this and i had no idea i was doing this even now when i know i do it, i cant stop it. why is this?...

I set him a trap, he failed my trap. Was what he did cheating? How can I stop him cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship together for more than four years now. He has never done anything to cheat on me but when i checked his emails, i saw one of his emails saved in drafts saying "I am a single male of 24, what you wan...

I am torn between my polygamous ex who I love and a stunning woman who I dumped. How do I sever ties to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - I have been dating this girl since October and we are madly in love, but it hasnt been easy. She has lied to me numerous times,I have found out her actual age (a lot older than me) and she has lied about being with her ex, while she was still wi...

Tell me how I can heal my broken heart? Is my caste my fault? Twice I lost for same reason

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - how could i ever forget my boy friend easily? He said that he loved me, but he can't be married to me, because his family don't accept me because my caste didn't match with him.. tell me how my caste is my mistake? i loved him unconditionaly w...

After a year we still haven't said "I love you" to one another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - So I've been with this guy for almost a year now and i feel like he is my "one" but neither of us have said "i love you". I have always had issues saying it but he hasn't. So why hasn't he said he loves me??? I sometimes feel like he is cheating but ...

How do I make things work with my best friend and my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - My best friend is starting to ditch me because I'm with my boyfriend too much at school instead of how it used to be with just me and her.. I don't want her to feel forgotten but I also want to be with him and have been with him for a long time. ...

I'm worried that later on in life my boyfriend could become abusive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend always treats me way good and does nice things for me but when he gets upset he kind of scares me. He has never hurt me or anything but he flips out and it gets crazy. I'm worried that when we are married he will get worse. Should I ...

My GF doesn't open up to me, is very close to her ex, got naked at a school party...yet has no regrets and just doesn't seem to care anymore!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Hi there everyone. I'm not sure what to think about my girlfriend. I'm normally really good at reading people and I've just been having trouble this time. My girlfriend and I met online and have been together 3 months. Yes I know, I don't ne...

Men please help me, Was it love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I dated this guy for 8 months. we recently broke up and come to find he had other sex patrners and was still sleeping with his ex the entire time. I dont get why you would get into a relationship if you have no intention on being faithful. His ...

Please help.. judgmental mom doesn't like my boyfriend of 2 years for no reason whatsoever

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - My mom is being really mean saying that she doesn't like my boyfriend of whom I've been dating for 2 years now only because he is shy and doesn't like to talk much. Gosh it's really irritating me.. gahhh I feel myself getting closer and closer to ...

I know he still likes me, is he trying to make me jealous?

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8 April 2011 (F) - ive been with this guy for 4 days and we broke up he was the type that wasn't very popular...but now that he is he thinks he is all that...but we still talk and text as friends...and i know him well and i know that he still like me but he's too ...

Should I continue to pursue this girl or let things go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - Well there is this girl that i met at this event with my friends, i really liked talking to this girl and she seemed intrested in me as well. I got the guts to ask her for her number and she gave me hers and she also asked for mine. The nex...

The relationship isn't great and I'm pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I am 21 and in my first year at university. I have been with my bf for about 7 months and things over the last month or so havent been the best. Found him keeping in contact with ex's and lying about it etc. I have found out today that I am ...

Does he really love his GF as much as he says he does? Or is he interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I realized I basically fell in love with one guy. He has been in a relationship for 3 years now. From the begining he did not tell me about his girl friend,so I was talking to him as to a single good looking and nice guy. Then I found ou...

He says he got rid of his porn for me. Should I believe him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - i have a question that is mostly for guys.. i want to start by saying that i am very aware that when a girl tells a guy she wants him to get rid of his porn, usually he just hides it.. but in my case, i never told him how i felt about it, the to...