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Dating: Help and advice

He has said I need to get my act together or we have no future!

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9 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have together for 5 years and we've felt great about eachother. recently he has told me he's buying a house, we don't live together. he has said i need to get my act together or we have no future. i felt insecure and looked at his ...

Confusion after Blind date

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9 April 2011 (M) - The other night i had a great blind date. There was lots of laughter and chatting, the body language good, her pupils dilated and lots of hair touching.She even talked about what to do ' Next Time' and stayed longer than she planned, as we was ...

Do relationships after high school ever work?

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9 April 2011 (F) - So...I'm a senior in high school and a boyfriend was the last thing on my mind. When I first started dating my current boyfriend about three months ago I thought it was just a fling that would be over after graduation. The truth is our feelings for ...

I have a spark with another guy...my boyfriend who despite what I pretend is really just a good friend

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9 April 2011 (F) - im going out with this really nice sweet guy and i really like him but i also like this other boy and i think i like him more because we have a kind of spark rather than my boyfriend who despite what i pretend is really just a good friend. I dont ...

How do I get this guilt to go away? Should I be 'just friends'?

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9 April 2011 (F) - Sorry, this is kind of a long story. So I broke up with my ex of two years, and he was my first for pretty much everything. A couple weeks after, I met my best friend up at his college and we had fun to take my mind off of my first big break ...

He Likes Me But I'm Scared... Please help!

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9 April 2011 (F) - Okay, so 2 nights ago i went to a house party and there was this guy there that i have met a couple times and he is a friend of my friend. He really likes me and everyone is trying to get us together. I do quite like him but he's not really my type ...

BF is uncomfortable about physical scenes in the play. Should I not do them?

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9 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year and we really trust each other. I do drama and as part of a role I have some pretty intimate scenes with another guy. My bf is really happy for me that I got the role but says he is really ...

I heard she liked me, so I told her I liked her and she got mad. What is going on?

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9 April 2011 (M) - ok , heres the deal . Im 13 and in middle school . This girl likes me and i like her alot. I feel so attracted to her. 3 of her friends told me she likes me. one of her friends said "She likes you, she didn't want me to tell you". I told her ( th...

I think he said it was enough because I'm so inexperienced. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Im 15 and I've never really had a proper boyfriend so I'm quite inexperienced. Recently I've been on a couple of dates with this guy who is also 15 but a lot more experienced than me. So last night I was meeting this guy at his house before w...

Parents don't approve. Should we continue to sneak around, or just wait until she is older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16 we've been friends for 2 and half years and just recently started going out. Even before we started dating her parents didn't know I existed (they don't want her to have any communication with the opposite sex). And i ...

I'm in love but he hasn't noticed. What should I do?

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9 April 2011 (F) - Hey!!! Am 18 and i'm in luv wit a 20 yr old guy, i told him but he seems like he never love me. What should i do?...

BF took money from daughter's room. I am not sure what to do about this relationship. Please help.

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9 April 2011 (F) - here is my dilema...my boyfriend of 5 years is lazy , has lied a lot in the past, I found out last year that he got oral from another man when he was in his teens .. i have been thru a lot with this guy.. but i am the kind of person that sees the ...

Depressed because of age. Any advice?

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9 April 2011 (F) - I am getting terribly depressed and although not suicidal. I keep getting very depressed because I am coming up to 60 years of age. No man will want me now I know that and cant help wondering what a bleak future. I know one doesnt have to have a ...

BF is upset because I won't pick him up at the airport. Is he being unreasonable?

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9 April 2011 (?) - My boyfriend is flying into town to close on his house on Monday at night, and will be here until Friday. I have class Monday until 9pm and he expects me to pick him up at the airport after class even though his flight gets in at 7pm and i have ...

I told her I wanted to get to know her better and she said the same to me, but she has a BF. Is she playing games?

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9 April 2011 (M) - I don't know. I think she likes me. Well long story short, she's been in my class for years before we got different classes. I changed a lot, physically and mentally and I really wasn't talking to her till near exams. We both are in the same coll...

Are my dark "bits" as pretty as a white girl's to my boyfriend?

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9 April 2011 (F) - I am black and my partner is white. I have seen some of the porn he uses and they have white women in them, and they all have very...pink, light skinned vagina's. Of course, as I am black, I am much darker down there and I feel insecure. Are whit...

Warcraft relationship. Is it just distance that keeps us apart or do I have other issues to consider?

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9 April 2011 (F) - I know a lot of people would laugh but I figured this was a good place to ask about my problem. I met a guy while playing World of Warcraft about 7 months ago. We are in the same guild. We started talking, I mean REALLY started talking, and I deve...

Does my boyfriend still maintain an interest in his ex, or not?

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9 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now. We've been through a lot of drama with his ex. at the start of our relationship because it was a messy break up for them, but we got through it. Now, there's this other girl who...

Does my ex have amnesia? Or has he been playing me?

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9 April 2011 (F) - I'm just really confused right now. Here's the thing, my ex-bf of 7 months broke up with me through email 2 years ago since we have had a long-distance relationship, he told me he faded his feelings for me but wanted to stay friends even after the ...

How do I pick up the pieces? friends destroyed our relationship before it had a chance

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9 April 2011 (M) - I just don't know who to talk to... I'm feeling horrendous right now... A year... a whole 12-14 months of waiting for the right person... we dated a fortnight... the best fortnight of my life... I've only ever had two girlfriends so I was waiting ...

He got angry over it. But how do I get him to realize it was his mistake?

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9 April 2011 (M) - i got a fight with my boy friend,it was his mistake, he got angry on me, right now he is not feeling well, now what should i do? How do i get him to realize it was his mistake?...

My Bf got a stripper pregnant on a one night stand. How do I deal with it? He's sorry.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend of 8 yrs had a one nite stand and now a female is carrying a baby from him. She was a stripper. he says he is sorry I want to still be with him try work things out for us we have kids together,but how do I deal with this sex I m...

Should I go to the game with him tommorow?

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9 April 2011 (F) - I am 21. He is 20. We have been on 3 dates. He plays soccer,for a big team's younger category. I am a university student. I didnt know he was a soccer player when we first talked,and truth is i am a little prejudiced against them,since ...

How do I stop urges to like other men when my boy friend is unavailable? Even though I do love my Bf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - hi. i am 24 and I have a boyfriend... he is studying in a different state and hence we are maintaining a long distance relationship from last 2 years our relationship is really good in all respects. but i have a problem of getting attracted toward...

Should I go for this older divorced guy?

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9 April 2011 (?) - i have feelings for this older guy. he is 27 i am 18 in the uk i don't know weather to make my feeling known we are close and talk all th4e time. i am very flirty towards him but i don't know if he notices? he is recently divorced becaus...

I want her back and need advice how to do it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - I want to make this short. I dated this girl for a short period of time i played the whole chase game with her. I cared about her always went out of my way for her never abused her or made her feel bad about herself. I treated her the best i have ...

If he loved me, he'd spend money on me

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9 April 2011 (F) - I have being in a relationship for good one year and during this year my guy has never a day giving me gift or money to take care of myself. I want to quit because he don't love me and if at all he did he would have spend for me a little. Please ...

What can I do? I can't stop thinking of him, yet I thought I was over him.

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9 April 2011 (F) - I broke up with my ex at the end of last november after two and a half years together, it had been going hill for a few months and he had done badly in his exams which made him basically initiate the split. I was hurt and distraught as to the fact ...

I feel I broke up for no reason. How can I keep a relationship going longer than 12 months?

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9 April 2011 (F) - Please advise me on this... I love a guy and i moved into a relationship with him,but before you know it i began to hate him. This made me to break up without no reason. Please why is this so? It is really affecting me because i have not been able...

Does this guy I love only like me as a friend or as something more?

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9 April 2011 (F) - how will i interpret someone's action or how does he really feels for me...?? there are times that i can feel he cares for me more than other girls...(we are best buds...) i know that he already know i feel special towards him.. but he never show...

The love of my life said he would marry me...but that he's not the marrying kind! How do I deal with this?

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9 April 2011 (F) - Hi Aunts Me again the ''he said he would only marry me if he was to get married but isn't sure if he's the marrying type'' girl. I'm completely heartbroken. I love him so much and I know we can make each other happy. I just need to know what to ...

Girl from work giving me mixed messages! What does she want??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - I need help, there is a girl at work that I really like, I have worked with her for a few years now but over the past month or so we have been texting like everyday. I eventually asked her out and she basically said that it would be nice but she ...

I want to date her, but she is always making excuses even though she says she likes me! What to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - So I am a 20 year old female and recently came out as bi. My best friend is a lesbian and we have only known each other for a few months. My problem is I have just gotten out of a relationship with a man that lasted 4 years and have fallen for ...

I'm having loads of trouble finding an attractive, intelligent girlfriend!

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9 April 2011 (M) - I need some advice on how to find a decent girlfriend. I'm a really good looking, athletic guy. I'm a combat veteran, university graduate, and have a well paying corporate job for someone my age (23.) I will be a homeowner in less than 2 year...

Is it always a bad idea to date your supervisor at work??

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9 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I am in a weird situation here. I work as a nurse aide and my supervisor and I have been seeing each other for two weeks now. He is so sweet to me. He always tells me how pretty I am and brings me flowers. When we are at work we keep it ...

Are we too physically intimate too fast?

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9 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is 17 and I am 15, and we have been together for about two months. We live in NYC. We started kissing and making out a while ago and now its almost the only thing we do. I spend a lot of time in his room, especially at night, and while...

Should I be upset that my gf keeps giving out her phone number to guys who clearly like her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - So me and my new girlfriend have been together for 6 months. I'm 25 and she's 20. Things were going really well or so I thought...we started having problems when she started talking to guys and giving her phone number to them, usually on the bus ...

Can I trust my bf again after he's cheated twice before? If so, how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I have been dating a guy off and on for about 3 years. Hes my absolute best friend and the love of my life. But, I have major trust issues with him when it comes to cheating and such. We've dated 3 times (this time being our third) and the ...

I'm being pressurized into marriage because my GF whom I never really loved, got pregnant and had our baby, by lying to me about using birth control..

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9 April 2011 (M) - Hello. I am in a spot of bother. I had been going out with a girl long distance for about a year, we moved in together and I was pretty sure then that it wasn't true love. After about 6 months, when she was telling me she was taking contra...

Should I break the news to my parents about my having sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - for some backround info: i'm 18 and i have a 26 year old boyfriend. we have been dating since october 5th and on valentines day told me he was in love with me. i have just recently began staying over at his house. my parents have many issues w...

She made plans to meet with someone from work without me for a drink. Should I be upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - My girlfriend of two months made plans to drink with a guy from work without me. Do I have a right to be upset? It seems like she's enjoying the fact that it hurts me. I know she loves me, she tells me all the time. I'm not understanding her ...

I asked him to wear a condom and he was "offended" that I didnt trust him! Now he doesn't want the relationship anymore!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I first met this guy in summer school...i didn't have any classes with him...but from the very beginning he started showing signs of interest...afterwards I think it was in September when he added me on face book...he kept on commenting on my posts ...

How do I get this boy to like me?

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9 April 2011 (F) - Okay, there is this guy I'm in love with, but he doesn't even like me that way. We used to be really close friends until another girl told him I liked him a lot. He told my friend that he liked me a little but not after that. He is really funny and ...

I find the thought of hooking up with guys repulsive. Does this mean I am gay or bi?

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9 April 2011 (F) - I feel like somethings missing. I don't know what it is, but I have an idea. It's just that every time I see couples, I wish I could have a girlfriend. I also am confused. I mean, I'm sure I'm Bi Sexual, but the sexual thought of guys is just... ...

My BF doesn't believe in sex until marriage but I don't think I'm ever going to be ready for marriage. Should I stay or leave??

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9 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and he's 19, I'm 18 and he doesn't believe in sex until marriage but I don't think I'm ever going to be ready for marriage and I don't want him to compromise his morals for me so, what I'm asking is if ...

Should I continue to wait to tell her I love her, or should I do it now?

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9 April 2011 (M) - So essentially this girl that I've first started talking to about 3 weeks ago and I both realized and admitted that we both like each-other alot, and since we first went out on a date, we've talked till at least 11pm everyday since, we talk about ...

Did what I say crush my cousin's intentions? I wanted to say something different.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - One of my friends brother called my cousin my boyfriend and my cousin blushed. And then i said he was just my cousin. But i wanted to say something different. When said what i said my cousin he looked sad, and now he acts way diffrent. Do you think ...

Does he like me or just my body? How can I tell?

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9 April 2011 (F) - I'm in high school by the way =] So there's this guy or better yet, player I like but hes been on and off with his girlfriend for a while now ( Me and her are between acquaintances and friends), anyways I've been capable of " lightly" liking ...

I'm so torn. She flirts 24.7. I really care about her. Is there any way to deal with this instead of breaking up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - what should i do? i have been with this girl for nearly a year, she's my first everything, and i love her so much. I honestly do care about her. she feels the same way and we always talk about how we want a future together. we never fight or ...

My fiancé found out he has cancer and left me. How can I go on?

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9 April 2011 (F) - My fiancé found out last winter as part of a physical exam for work that he has aggressive stage 3 cancer. His parents moved him into an apartment near the university hospital for treatment and he has been in chemo and radiation and there is some ...

Is it possible to fall in love in just 2 meetings including sex?

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9 April 2011 (M) - Is it fair to tell her I am in love? Our first meeting - We had sex for 2 hours and it was extremely passionate. How we ended up having sex in the first meeting is something which I rather not discuss here. Our 2nd meeting - We ended up chatt...

I can't talk to girls because I'm shy and intimidated

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9 April 2011 (M) - Hey there! I am a 16 year old guy, and I have loads to tell you guys. Ok, so this is about girls! From preschool up until about grade 6, I have never been afraid of girls..As soon as I entered grade 7 up until grade 10...disaster. I have never had a ...

Should I confront him about this?

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9 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months and we really like each other. I often go round to his house and we just sit and watch a movie or something like that (we don't do anything sexual) and I usually leave quite late. Sometimes I ...

How to know the one to go for

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9 April 2011 (F) - Five guys are after me and i don't know the one to go for because it seems they all love me equally. Please tell me How to know the one to go for....

Why do I always panic and think a girl is too good for me?

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9 April 2011 (M) - need a bit of feedback. ive posted a couple of times. yeah im still a virgin at 30. i was in the pub tonight. had a few drinks but just could not relax. normally i would wait to sober up before posting but i want to try and get my exact feelings ...

How do I get my bf to kiss me

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9 April 2011 (F) - I'm in the 8th grade and today is my boyfriend and I's 1 month anniversary and all we have done is hugged, held hands, he's put his arm around me, and put our heads on each others' shoulders. I know he really wants to kiss me because he's told me ...