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writes:this is mainly aimed at girls i like this girl and i thought that she liked me but the other day when we were talking i just got the impression that she didn't like me. she is currently going out with my "friend" who isn't a good friend or boyfriend to her and i kept focusing on her because i thought that she liked me but now i want to focus on other girls.i am 18 next month and i haven't had a single girlfriend. I really want a girlfriend now and i want to know girls is how do you want to be approached by a guy? do you want them to ask for your number or just organise a time and place etc.?what do you expect a guy to do to organise a date or "chat you up" some would say?thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 I'm not a girl, but I've always found the direct approach is best. Usually talking first to see if there is a connection followed by either a date proposal or at a minimum asking for her number.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011): A girl likes to be complimented, this sounds really old school but open doors for her or offer to help her carry something if it looks a little heavy. Trust me old school is the best way to go, sometimes the way a guy talks to a girl can be a little off putting, so if you take the old school route a girl will prefer it because they understand you like them and see that you're a gentleman.
Of course that depends on the girl but most girls like that sort of thing. The other option is have a few conversations, find out what the girl likes and dislikes and as you get to know her a little bit then you can ask for her number or just ask for a date.
Either method is good.
Hope this helps, good luck.
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