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Dating: Help and advice

Does the 3 day rule still apply?

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6 April 2011 (F) - Does the 3 day rule still apply? I know it is kind of old fashioned but i'm just wondering if men in particular still go by the 3 day rule? Does it still apply with texting, chatting online, phoning and everything? I have a wonderful guy and i don't ...

Am I asking too much from him? I feel sad and confused and unloved.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping you can give me some advice or even help me get my heart and brain around me and my partner... It will be 2 years this month for our relationship, we should still be in our honeymoon stage wouldn't you think.. I feel unworthy...

Stick it out with the current boyfriend or go after ex?

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6 April 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for four months, and two months into our relationship my old love became single. i haven persued it, although i know i have outragous feelings still for my old love as well as my current. my current boyfriend is ...

Romantic easy breakfast for girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Now, I know this question would probably be more suitable in some food forum but... I hope you guys are there for me ;-) This Saturday, my girl and I have six months day, and it's a bit of a milestone, since none of us has ever had a sweetheart ...

Hes coming on to strong and this isnt what I want

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and I went to a party two weeks ago and really hit off with this absolutely lovely and beautiful guy. We have been texting constantly and have been out a few times for long chats. The thing is that he wants a relationship and ...

He says I shouldn't talk about the past and should just trust him

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6 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, My BF and I have been dating exclusively for 3 months (dating 4). Should he be in love with me by now if we're seeing each other 3-4 times a week? I'm concerned he's not over his long-term partner which was followed by a painful ...

How do I come accross as nice guy even when her boyfriend is around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - well my friends and i are going to the cinema tomorrow and the girl i like is going as well and i want to show her that i can be a nice guy because i think she has a little thing for me but her boyfriend who is coming with us treats her like rubbish ...

Any advice on what I could tell her to furthermore explain to her that she doesn't need a boyfriend??

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6 April 2011 (F) - For this I am going to call my friend.. Kate. Kate is a very pretty girl , smart , athletic ,and loves to party! The only problem she has is boys. She usually comes to me for advice on them , because I am usually the one to listen, But I've ran out ...

Didn't hear from her for months. Do you think she still cares?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - i met this gal ages ago about October last year online we have been talking a lot until few months ago i emailed her no reply for some weeks. i got a reply today does she still love me and why has she replied so late to my email??? please help ...

How to I get her attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - i like a girl and this girl kind of dislikes me i dont know why...she in fact knows that i like her and she plays dirty being more interactive with other guys especially when i am around (hugging, flirting etc etc). She also doesnt talk to me much ...

Do I stay with my GF who I'm comfortable with, or pursue the new girl I can't stop thinking about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Ok. So, I've been dating the same girl for two years now. Things are mostly good, except we fight a lot, have different personalities, and dont really have many similar interests (i.e. she gets pissed off when I spend a day watching sports). We are ...

I lied. How can I pretend to be good in bed with no experience?

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6 April 2011 (F) - So i've told all my group of friends that i'm not a virgin and they all think i'm good in bed, i've never said i am but for some reason i let off that i am. The thing is theres this one guy in my group of friends who i really like and he likes me, ...

GF just told me she was promiscuous in college. Can't get it out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for over a year now. We live together and split everything and love each other so. Out for drinks the other night we got on the subject of past sexual history. We didn't divulge our numbers but ...

My BF's political views are self destructive. I will be leaving and I am worried about what he will do when I'm gone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I think my boyfriend is delusional and lost. We're both 16 and he's confusing me so much. We come from different backgrounds. I live a comfortable middle class suburban life and go to private school. He goes to a rough school (People have been ...

Do you have any advice for someone who is separated from their loved one because of work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I am very concerned about how much time I crave to be with my partner. Her job as an international guide makes it difficult for us to have any time to see each other. She is always overseas, out with friends or at the office. She is pressed for t...

I'm nervous. What should I expect to happen during our threesome?

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6 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are having our first threesome together what should i prepare for and what happens? i am excited about having a threesome and him seeing me have sex with another guy. what should i expect to happen so i am not so nervous? ...

I worry that one day he'll wake up and realize that it's her he wants.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I'm in this 3 year relationship with this AMAZING guy. He and I have recently just came back from a 4 month trip in Europe. We have big plans for the future together. We are currently starting a business together, so life has been really stressful ...

Girlfriend has broken my heart. I don't know how I am going to cope. Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I just found out that my girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me 3 days before we took a trip to Texas to meet my family. We get back and she continues to go out every night (shes 21 Im 30). She comes home 3 nights ago wasted and refused to tell me ...

I think my friend is moving in on the boy I like. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Well ive met this really sweet, nice, cute boy and well we've been talking too each other for months and we told each other our feelings for each other. I told my friend all about it and she was just happy for me, but my friend and the boy i liked ...

Men what is the right number of times to call?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Men how often would you like for a woman, or your partner, to call you in a day or a week where you would not get aggravated when you two don't live in the same house. Thanks...

I always get bored. It's happening again. Why and what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I am 21 years old and i think of myself as a mature adult, i want to have that long term commitment with someone but my problem i have is that i become bored in a relationship very quickly. I am usually loud and very out going, and i enjoy the ...

Just friends or just games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

6 April 2011 (?) - I recently met a man online, he seemed nice, and would contact me everyday and also added me on a well known social network. We became close over the weeks. Both of us agreed that we were not ready to meet up just yet as we are both cautious after ...

Do temptations make you a cheater even if you don't give into them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Do temptations make you a cheater even if you don't give into them? I am very in love with my girlfriend and we have been together since the beginning of 2010. A few months prior when we were "dating" I put myself in a very bad situation. We all ...

Stepmom instigated Dad and older brother to beat up my BF.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - me + my bf(15) have been dating 4, 5 months (the only thing we do is kiss cus we decided 2 wait.) my step-mom hates me so last nite we were sitting their watching t.v. (my step mom was home the whole time) so she told my dad + big bro he was "on top ...

He is not the same since he started drinking. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - He use to be so nice and sweet but he has been drinking and now i don't know who he is. He has just changed and its scaring me. What should i do? I think i might love him but i don't know him anymore.:( Please help me!!...

Sexual encounter btw an 18 yr and 25 yr? legal yes but is it ok?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Thoughts on a recent high school graduate having sex with a 25 yo? Or a college sophomore dating a 26 yo? I know its legal but is it appropriate?...

Why does he keep on ignoring me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone! I REALLY need your help. I have recently joined a youth club where we do a lot of drama and dance, that really helps with my confidence. Its been going great and I've got on well with some of the boys there. The problem is I go...

He says girls leave him because hes too nice. Is that my cue to walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone I am a african american female and I just started talking to a white/Caucasian male he's really nice and sweet but he tells me that girls leave him cause they say he's too nice should that be my cue to walk away now? We've only been ...

I cant get over her and I don't know what to do about it

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6 April 2011 (M) - Why? Ive dated this girl for 5 years now and I love her. We broke up for a few months about a year ago now, and I started hanging out with a girl that I met at school. We became really good friends and I decided to ask her out, well she turned me ...

Boyfriend acted differently, am I thinking too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - hi everyone, so last night me and my boyfriend were texting as usual, then he told me he was going to a festival in france so he told me the present he was getting for me was going to have to wait. i was a bit annoyed but i was just glad he was goin...

I am desperately unhappy because I cant measure up to my boyfriend's ex and I just want to get out of this relationship so that I do not have to be compared to her...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I am so so jealous of my partners ex. I dont know where to start but it just seems like she was better in every way. She was very good looking, she had a kid, guys were always hitting on her. She is now doing a great job that pays well and she is ...

Applied for the same job, I got it and my BF didn't...and I lied to him that I didn't make it too!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf and myself applied for a job in the same place and we both have the same qualification, although i personally think he is more knowledgable than me. Long shory short, i got the job and he didnt. He was very upset that he di...

Torn between my boyfriend of 4 years and another guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I am torn between my boyfriend of 4 years and another guy. i used to be really happy with my boyfriend but he doesn't really talk to me and he rarely texts me. When we started dating he always wanted to see me and talk to me but not so much anym...

How can you mend a broken heart?Does any one know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - So there was this guy i really liked.I thought he felt the same.we were friends and in class he would come sit by me he would flirt with me.And then one day at school he wanted me to ask out my friend for him.I was so sad and i still am.She said ...

Is this guy a player or am I just suspicious?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I really need some help on this one, guys opinions too please. Im not 100% sure but I think I have guy who is a bit of a player or a flirt. He is older than me by 7 years. Met him over a social network site (you know the one). We live in the same ...

When should I kiss my g/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - please help i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 months, we live quite far away from eachother and i dont get to see her often, the first time i was with her i was too shy to kiss her, she then said "i got a hug today but not a kiss", so i ...

How do you enter the dating world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Okay..I am 48 and widowed. I have only had one partner in all my life..how, how, how do you re-enter the dating areana in this day and age when you have never even dated? i met him at 15 and that was it..until now. ...

I have not PHYSICALLY cheated....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I recently had a long relationship (2yrs) with a woman, who is still technically married, and only recently seperated. I have duriing this relationship met her 3 times, I live in the UK and she in Texas. I know inside she is all I have ever wanted. ...

How can I show support when I get a cold shoulder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - My partner is lukewarm...Wont sleep with me and is always tired and moody...I want to show support but when it is given I feel a cold shoulder... Please Help, Sadly Confused...

I just want to move on with my life and enjoy the rest of my pregnancy and get along with my ex but I don't know how...HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - im 19 years old and i am 22 weeks pregnant. My baby's father and i were together for 3 years but broke up before i found out i was pregnant. When i told him everything was fine but then a couple weeks later out of no where he would tell me that he ...

I don't think he's interested in me. Should I call off the date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a little under two months. The first couple dates we went on we made out and it was super hot. He suggested we wait a couple weeks to have sex... i told him we should wait 3 months. He reluctantly agreed. Since ...

Girlfriend accuses me of not being excited enough about getting married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, I've been living with my girlfriend for a few years now. We have a stable relationship - some up and downs, of course, but nothing big, I guess. We're both around 26-29 y old. For some time she's been talking about getting married an...

I like this guy and I don''t want to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Okay, I'll keep it simple. I've liked this guy for quite some time. And I don't want to. I've dated other guys, and tried to keep my distance. We work together, we disliked each other at first but the more we started joking and playing around, I ...

How do I repay him for all he's done for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - hey, right now i am sick. i have the flu and i've never been this sick before in my life. my bf is being soo sweet, like he's here everyday checking on me, and bringing me my school assignments. he makes me feel like a princess even when i ...

My G/f is unbelievably controlling/manipulative/insecure and I'm wondering if I can do anything to make her a little more secure...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I know that my girlfriend of almost 1 and a half years is controlling/manipulative/insecure/etc...and that 99.9% of me knows that I'll inevitably break up with her, but I am the kind of person that wants to have no regrets and exhaust all measures ...

We've dated and kissed, but he doesn't talk to me anymore!

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6 April 2011 (F) - ive liked this boy for 2 years and he said he liked me too ,weve been out loads and weve kissed and done other stuff apart from sex, we were close and he always talked to me, his friends make fun of me and we dont talk no more, he still asks my ...

Is there any such thing as "I don't know why I love you but I love you"..??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months told me yesterday that he doesn't know why he loves me but he loves me. Is there any such statement and does such exist. I can tell him 3 reasons why I love him but he can't? When I asked him what he menat. He said "It mean...

How to not be too needy or clingy and push a guy away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - ok this question is for guys, there is a guy who is interested in me and wants to spend time with me. i want to be with him and spend time with him too. i'm just wondering, what do guys consider to be too needy or too clingy, that might push a guy ...

She's keeps asking me when I'm going to propose to her, but she tells other people she wishes she was with this other guy who she's cheating on me with!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Hi I just wanted to get some advice I don't think my gf is phisicly cheating on me but..... When got together she was seeing this other guy at the same time. 2 years on and she is still in daily contact via txt and face book with this guy. to save ...

I earn more money than my B/f. Is this going to affect our relationship long term and will he resent me for it one day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and a half and we have a very good relationship. I studied at university for 6 years while he started working right out of high school. At the moment I earn more than him and I think thin...

I love her, but I cannot have the future I want with her. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I have strange sexual tastes which my girlfriend of almost 7 years fulfills. (I'm 70%-30% roughly bi to the straight side and I like to cross dress and satisfy guys sometimes). Problem is my girlfriend is married and has kids (26 and 28). She's co...

Can this impossible love happen? Is it true you should set them free if it is meant to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Well here it goes ... I have been seeing this man for 4 years .. We never talked about our relationship other than 95% non verbal negotiations and 5 % verbal negotiations. he has been honest so far even though he screws up almost but never hides ...

How much do appearances matter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I recently met this guy whose family was from my hometown originally but he was born and raised in this country. He obviously likes me a lot and we had a lot to talk as his major is similar to mine. We've met twice but nothing was awkward and he ...

Is it true that you're a slut if you have big labias?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Im officially freeking out. Im in a LDR and ive been with my bf in real but we obv spend more time online together. Well i dont remember what happened but my bf turned round to me and was like im gonna make up somethin about u then and tell so...