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writes:The question sums this up. Theres this gorgeous girl i always see about at my college, we don't know each other though. But when i see her and we look at each other, there is a connection there. So we know of each other, im just not sure what sort of person she is.. When i see her with her friends she is really happy and laughing and looks like a friendly laid back person. But at the same time and this also applies when i see her on her own, she seems untouchable and that girl that unless you know her, you do not talk to her!I can't figure her out? So I don't want to go up and talk to her for that reason in case she rejects me. But i heard a smile can break the ice, but what if i smile do you think she will she smile back? I know i smile back at people when they smile at me, but i'm not sure if they will? Reply to this Question
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen +, writes (18 April 2011):
 Set a goal. Tell yourself that before this week is out you will talk to her, no matter what you say. Try saying ``hi'' whenever you walk past her. If she is a decent girl she won't reject you for just that. Work from there. Then you might find something else to say to her as you see her around, you may think of something you could possibly have in common with her, like classes you take or where you eat, whatever. Just exchanging glances from a distance probably means little to her. Get yourself out there. Let the magic begin.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 Why not try it? Friendships have to start somewhere, sometimes it's as simple as saying "hi, I noticed you from afar and you seem like someone I should get to know. I'm John."
You'll never figure her out if you just stare from a distance all the time. Start by smiling at her. If she smiles back, then maybe it's time to introduce yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011): A girl won't reject you for just talking to her. But if you don't want to jump straight into a conversation then you should smile at her, she will return you smile and then you can have a conversation with her. Perhaps start with a compliment.
I hope this helps you.
Good luck
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