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36-40,
*blade
writes:so i met this girl a few times.. at a party and at a bar.. little chit chats here and there. nothing special.one night i saw her again at a bar so i went up to her being nice and just started a chat. then i sat down and she came up and started to talking to me telling me she likes me and interested in me.. and i knew she had a little feeling towards me so i got her number. but she is leaving back to her country in 5months so she wasnt looking for an relationship. someone to have fun with.. so i agreed to herso we organised to meet up for a drink. after the drink i went back to her place then we slept together.after that night things were going good.. she msged me the next day just saying small talks.but untill this i wasnt really commited to her and i think she got fed up with it..when i msg her to do something i feel like shes been avoiding me.. she would say she's busy and we;ll meet up next time.. when i call her she doesnt answer my phone calls and doesnt call back.we go for a run once a week.. when we run we r great.. good conversations, good vibe..i dotn know what she wants.. or she's thinkingobvisouly we both agreed to not have a relationship.. so i thought we were refering to having fun and sexual relationship...am i being too clingy? i know we certainly lost a spark.. can anyone tell me whats going on with this relationship?
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reader, person12345  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 I think ChiGirl is right, this girl sounds like she just wanted a one night stand. It's not about clingy or not clingy, she just doesn't sound like she would want to be attached to anyone right now since she's leaving so soon.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 I think she just wanted you for a one night thing, and not for a sexual relationship. Perhaps she didn't think you were a good sexual match for her, and thats why she doesn't want to continue seeing you? Or perhaps she just wanted that one night, and then she wants to move on to trying other men out?
The spark went missing, for whatever reason. Don't be troubled by this though, just let it go. You don't care for her as anything other than a friend anyway, so just let it be. So far I don't see you being clingy, but she definitely isn't showing you that she is interested in more.
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