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writes:Hai there to whoever is reading this..I hope you can help me on this one.I have a boyfriend,yes,i am THAT.Anyway,he is 3 years younger than me,and im 19.We dont see each other that much,let alone talking.We only talk online.There are times when we didnt contact each other for weeks.And lately,my feelings for him are..Fading..Since he lied to me about his friend back then..I dont think its necessary for me to say bout what happened.So,around a couple of days ago,i did asked him that we should just be friends,but he didnt want to,and he asked me to give him a chance.I dont want to give him a chance,but what should i do?Im kinda confused here..I do..Love him,but,i hurt myself alot when im with him.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really really appreciate u who answer this,especially about that article..It helped me alot.Thanks very much.
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reader, hearrtbrrokengirrl  +, writes (5 September 2009):
Boy, just break up with him, just stop talking to him completely if that's what it takes, don't say anything regarding your love for him just do it, and leave it at that. There's no use wasting your time with someone if you dont really want to be with him, or if it causes pain for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): Well, you have to learn to love yourself first. Work on your self-esteem, realise what makes you unique, then worry about relationships with others. If this guy is making you feel bad, it is an unhealthy relationship and I sincerely doubt you deserve anything like that.
Read this article on self-confidence. It's not mine but it's excellent:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-is-confidence-and-how-do-i-get.html
I hope this helps!
Best of luck.
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