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writes:Hey im so counfused about everything how relastionships workHow they startWhere do couples go or do usualyI never had a proper relastionship and im 17!!! I have no answer and watching my mums relastionships didn't help me the way I am now I am more counfused Can somone help how dose it workWhat do you do how do you know its rightThe big question is how do you know when you really like somone? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): Ok lets start from the begining:
How do they start - when i was 17 i met most of my boyfriends at parties. Normally a guy would ask for my number he'd then take me out on a date. I met my current boyfriend (and my first serious boyfriend) at University. We hung out in the same circle of friends and became a couple after 2 years. He asked me out after I told a mutual friend I liked him. Weve now been together for 3 years.
I think the easiest way to meet girls and thus a potential g/f is to take a eveening class or join a club - meet someone with similar interests. Or try and get friends to introduce you to potential g/f.
Once you've met a girl you like you have to ask her on a date. This is easier if you've got things in common for example if you both like rock music, you could ask her if she wants to come to see a band with you. If she loves movies take her to the cinema.
Where do couples go or do usualy: Ok when you first start dating you normally go out on dates - go see a film, go to the theatre, meet for lunch in the park, go ice skating, whatever you are both into.
when it gets a little more serious you will probably want to invite her over to yours, watch telly together listen to music. Just chill. You might also introduce her to your friends and family.
how do you know shes the one: I don't think many people know straight away love just kinda creeps up on you.
I dont think there is such thing as a typical relationship, everyone is different.
Hope this helps
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (5 September 2009):
 Theres not really a right or wrong answer but heres the basics- Usually you'll meet through friend or out at parties n things like that, then you'll get chatting meet up a few times, have you're first kiss and then start 'seeing/dating' each other. Usually you'd just go round each others houses and watch films but you'd also go to places like the cinema, out for meals, shopping, things like that. After a while you'll become official and be know as 'boyfriend and girlfriend' You just know when you really like somoeone, you'll be thinking about them and find yourself smiling, you cant wait to see them or talk to them again, you're always happy when you're speaking to or with them and you feel completely comfortable with them as in you can see them wearing trackies, with bed hair and no make-up on and you wont care and you can say whatever you like to them
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