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Should I leave this relationship or wait till he screws it up?

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Question - (1 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *oodcharlotte4life writes:

okay, me and my x have started back dating and have been dating for about 2 weeks. the thing is i never get to talk to him, he is not a phone person so i never get to see or talk to him unless i go stay the night with him. my mom only lets me stay the night with him on the weekends and sometime i don't get to. i am afraid he will leave me one day because we never get to communicate. what if he gets lonely and i am not there? i don't think he would cheat on me but i am not sure. he still loves his x which lives right down the road from him! but he says he will never be with her ever again. i also want to make him stop loving her, she used to be my best friend at one time, now she turned into a little whore and will have sex with any guy that wants to. i am friends with his sister and last time i went over there she said that he said we weren't together any more. that scared me so i asked him. he said he was still with me, he told me he didn't really love me. he said love takes time and that he only like-likes me. :( should i leave in this relationship or wait till he screws up?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009):

Love does take time but if your that unhappy with the relationship brake up with him especially if he still loves his ex. You'l find someone some day that only has eyes for you.

All the best xx

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A female reader, Flawless29 United States +, writes (1 January 2009):

Hey there first of all, how can you have a relationship with someone that you barely see or talk to. There are a lot of men that do not like talking on the phone,but they make an exception for the person they love and care about. How can you date your ex bestfriend ex? Would you want someone to do that to you. And, if he still have love for her who is not to say that they are not fooling around. I am not trying to hurt you I am just keeping it real with you. I would rather tell you the truth than lie and hurt you . Love just don't come and go so if it is real then it take a minute to get over that person, and if it wasn't then it will take no time to get over a person. I would have never made myself interested in a man that told me he was still in love with someone else.

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