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30-35,
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writes:So I like this girl in my last period class. She's a country girl. But is completely down to earth. She shares my view of waiting til marriage for sex. She loves riding horses. We both have one. But from what I can tell, she thinks I'm kinda stupid. I'm one of the kids in that class that is always getting yelled at, but has the immunity to actually get in trouble. Most of the time, those kids are the ones who are stupid and pay their way through school. My family's wealthy and she knows that. I drive a +70k mustang. But I know that if we could hang out outside of that room of barely controlled chaos, we would get along. On days when we have away games during school and not many people come, the teacher accuses us of flirting all the time. But I'm just nervous. She helped me get through my last relationship and the hellish nightmare it put me through so she knows what's on my heart. I'm just afraid that...well I'm just afraid. I guess I just needed to write all that out to help get it out of my head. But I still need to know what to say to her. Can anyone help me there? I know we could have something wonderful outside of that classroom.
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reader, mnman3487 +, writes (4 December 2009):
 So... Wait a minute, I'm confused. If she's helped you in past relationships, then she's your friend right? And teachers accuse you of flirting? So obviously she doesn't think you're stupid, what leads you to believe so? The building block of any relationship is friendship, so start there. Invite her to go horseback riding, or homework together, or anything in a friendly way. Then once you feel comfortable, inform her of your feelings for her and see if she feels the same way. If you're as compatible as you think you are, then in all likelihood she will. Above all, don't push her. If she's not interested in you romantically she could still be a valuable friend, and you don't want to ruin that.
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