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writes:I am a still rather attractive woman after 3 kids. Look 10 years younger than what I am yet I feel like my life is not moving. I am waiting for it to start.I have had two long relationships but each time they leave me feeling loney and miserable. I know for a fact that I will be alone this xmas despite spending all of 1 1/2 days out of 14 in the caribbean with my so to be called bf this year.I have my eyes set on someone who is a teacher like me. He works for his family business p/t and when ever I am there he is always looking at me and me him. I have worked hard at my body language but it is hard as you cna not always control it. the last time I was there he did not acknowledge me for ages. Hours later he gave me a big kiss in front of his mother who likes me.In the past I asked for advise and gave him my business card. He did not respond but the nx time I went his friend was coming on to me stating "I'm free - I felt really embarassed as I felt he thought I was coming on to him.I would like to get to know him more. He is on Facebook but I do not want to make the first move. I have tried to make friends with his sister on Facebook in a vain attempt that that will break the ice. get on with his sisters. I dont know how to get things moving. he has a reputation with the ladies that's why I am being cauious. He is single parent just like me. The awkward thing about it is that he is friendly with my so to be called bf.Any comments greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThansk for the advice. I feel my current relationship is more or less ended. I do not see him for weeks. We have only been intimate 2 times for the year and he has not introduced me to his friends or family - So I am NOT in a relationship. He things he can have me as and when he pleases well sorry - my life goes on.
I have not told him in such clear English yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks ladies for your advise. I just can not bring myself to ask as I fear the knock, however, I will try flirting and even asking his mother probing and obvious questions. She is quite easy to talk to and she likes and respects me as she knows I work hard and she loves my youngest.
Thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): I am in the same boat as you, same age, situations etc.. I am worried that he has a reputation with the ladies. That would not make for a good boyfriend. I guess I would come right out and make it know that you would like to go on a date. He might think you are not interested oor could be insecure, who knows unless we try.. I am going to be alone alot of the Holiday as well. It is depressing but I am trying to make the best of it.
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