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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm a married woman in a polyamorous relationship and I've fallen deeply in love with a good friend. He gives me doe-eyed looks all the time. So I told him my feelings and he "friend zoned" me.He told me he's attracted to me and we're good friends, but it is not a road he wishes to walk. I can't blame him for being monogamous and not wanting to date a polyamorous woman, but it's just so hard.I just wish there was something I could do to change his mind about me. If there wasn't so much tension with us when we're around each other, it wouldn't be such a problem. But the looks we exchange: these are not the looks friends give one another. I'm certain he has feelings for me and it kills me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): Oh, you polyamorous folks are just like kids in a candy store. You want what you want even if too much gives you a stomach ache. He told you he isn't interested in having his feelings jerked around by the likes of you, so respect that and stop thinking you are entitled to what ever it is you desire...in short grow the fuck up.
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