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writes:I am dating a man who has filed for divorce and is just waiting for his court date.He showed me the papers etc.. as I wanted to be sure before our relationship progressed. problem is they have to share their house until it sells so they can both afford to move on. I told him i'd wait a few months but not more than that. Is that unfair to ask? I think its unfair to me that he's living there while with me and I think i'm being very understanding. We spend most time during the weekened together and she never questions him not going home at night or where he is but he claims she doesnt know he's dating anyone. He said he was so lonely and spent so much time alone during the marriage that she doesn't think twice about it. Who is that naive? Why doesn't she care where he is? I would.
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (16 September 2008):
 This sounds weird. What is the reason they are getting a divorce?
Be careful that he's not just using you for sex. Don't be the rebound girl.
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reader, blackROSE1916 +, writes (16 September 2008):
Sounds like maybe all those lonely nights he spent alone@ home, were b/c she may have a man she has been having an affair with for sometime.
Wait a sec though, go with your instincts! Maybe he has papers, but he wants his pie and eat it too. I think your feeling something fishy, and I WOULD be dig for more dirt, and question him in more depth! Something is not right here!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 September 2008):
Well of course she doesn't care where he is! If she cared, she probably wouldn't be divorcing him. She probably treats him like a housemate now so doesn't monitor his comings and goings.
As for waiting for him to move out, yes, setting him a dead line is a good idea, but so is helping him look for apartments and rentals to move into.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): aren't they getting a divorce? why would she?
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