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writes:HI, Im in a long distance relationship. We are completly in love, going out for two months now and she is coming here to live and we want to live together it will be in a couple of month when she does. I am 17 she is 19 i have nothing i dont want anything from her but her love and i dont want her to think otherwise. I'm the one who will be moving in with her we are really set on doing in.Do you think its the right move.and I want to ask her hand in marriage. this christmas is that the right move?oh and im a virgin and i do ask her about stuff like what she likes and stuff im just worried about timing and all kinds of stuff like if i can satisfy hercan you help meThank you,Darko
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reader, darko +, writes (17 October 2008):
darko is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWisteria Thank you for that im going to do the 1-2 years
i know it sounds stupid but i really think it is her
I am a pashont guy ^^ i did notice i was moving things fast but ill go slower thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): First of all, it's great that you're so in love! But. You are young and I'm assuming this is the first time you've found yourself in love like this. You seriously need to slow down. Take your time. Love doesn't necessarily guarantee that marriage is the right course for you just yet. Move in with her, see how it goes and after a year or two, if you still feel shes the one, ask her if she'd like to marry you. Marriage isn't just about love but respect, compromise and realising that you are both real people with disgusting habits just like everyone else.
Another thing, it's great that you ask her what she likes as far as the physical side of things go. Their are lots of guys out there who don't. You will learn how to please her but it won't happen straight away. You won't be fantastic at sex straight away. Be patient with each other, don't stress and everything will fall into place. Just keep asking questions and your desire to make her happy should suffice in the meantime.
good luck! :)
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reader, darko +, writes (17 October 2008):
darko is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advice^^ I will slow my self down and just see what happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): I am so happy to hear that you are in love. However, I think it is to soon for you to ask her to marry. You think this is the best time to do it but wait at least a few years. I married at 21 and in hindsight it was too early and things are not working out mainly due that we were not mature when we married. I am not saying that you are not mature nor that you cannot handle marriage but it is not something to rush into. Instead I would take the time to move in her with and get to know her more. Also, the sex will come when the time is right. Woman are by no means easy to satisfy (I'm one and I can be hard to please) so just ask her what she likes and do what makes you both comfortable. Good luck!
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