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I don't fancy him sexually like I do this other guy... but I don't love this other guy like I love my ex!!

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Question - (17 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm curently in a relationship with a guy who is great, but I slept with my ex a few weeks ago. I know it's a horrible thing to do and I have ovewhelming feelings of guilt!! I just can't seem to get my ex out of my head! The only reason we split up was because he had to move cities, we still keep in touch and he tells me he loves me all the time.

The only thing is I don't fancy him sexually like I do this other guy... but I don't love this other guy like I love my ex!!

Please help!!!

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A male reader, benefattore United States +, writes (17 October 2008):

benefattore agony auntWell first of all, if you have a heart at all you'd come clean to your current boyfriend. I don't care if you don't love him, act like a human being and give him the respect he deserves. If you're really feeling guilty, tell him what you did behind his back. If not, I'm surprised you can live with yourself.

Obviously you broke up with your Ex for a stupid reason. If you loved each other you would have fought through the long distance. If you're sleeping with each other OBVIOUSLY you two still love and want to be with each other. You can't have both - one guy for love and one guy for sex. That's selfish and you're a whore if you keep doing what you're doing.

Make your choice NOW, if you want true love or if you just want someone to sleep with. Stop hurting people in the process.

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