A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi all...another he didn't call question...I am the account rep for a company that does business with his company. Both of us are divorced with a child, no problems there. He asked me out to lunch one day and I was unable to go, then he asked me to lunch on a Sunday when neither of us had our children. We agreed to finalize things on the Saturday before. The following morning he sent me a text that said Good Morning, hope you have a great day... I tried calling on Saturday but got his voicemail, he never called back. He called on Monday and apologized up and down because he had become sick, even asked if he had blown it with me. I said no, I had to go by his company the following day and he said great, I would love to see you. He wasn't able to leave for lunch that day but we said we'd talk. We chatted a few times via text throughout the week. This past Saturday I had to be at his company again and we talked for a bit, he played with my hair and was very flirty. When I had to leave he gave me a hig and asked me out for lunch this week. I said yes and he said great I'll call you Monday and we can make plans. He texted me a bunch on Saturday night, even called at 11:15 and we talked for a bit. Now its Wednesday, he hasnt called at all. He did send a text message letting me know its the end of the month and he has been busy,and he is hoping that I am having a good day. I sent one back saying I know how it is, hang in there. Could someone HELP...I've not been in the dating thing for 8 years and not sure how to take all this - he came right out and said he was very interested...
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reader, SaintlySal  +, writes (2 October 2008):
Hello
take it slow. He has voiced his intentions. Let him take the lead. However, continue doing what makes you happy and feel fulfilled.
Take care
All the best
Let me know how you get on
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female
reader, Shingi +, writes (1 October 2008):
so the guys is probably interested. But u know what probably you are more desperate for his company then he is for yours( nothing wrong with that), that is why you couldn't accept he's busy!!
Now let us assume he's not busy- he jus said so..
for whatever reason- either he's acting pricey or he wants to know you are indeed waiting to go out with him.. whatever it may be, my advise to you, if he says he's busy, show it to him you believe it. If he calls you again , do go out with him but don't ever reflect that you were disappointed he couldn't make it before.
wait for him he'll give you a call soon, I know.
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