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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:So I was seeing this great guy for about 3 months at the start of the year. Everything was great and we were like boyfriend/girlfriend except we hadn't actually had 'the talk'. He introduced me to all his friends and I got on great with all of them.Then he told me that he didn't want a relationship at the moment, so we stopped seeing each other. I really liked him so I was upset but I told him that I agreed and that I didn't want a relationship either (Which wasn't true).Then about 4 months later he gets in touch with me again and we've been talking ever since. At first it was just as friends. I was playing 'hard to get' because I didnt want him to think he co,uld have me whenever suited him. He called me constantly, especially when he was drunk.Lately we're getting back to the stage we were before, as more than friends. I'm letting him do most of the work because I don't want to get hurt by him again. He calls me nearly every night, whether he's drunk or not. When he's drunk he is very honest and tells me that im the only one he wants and that he's crazy about me. He once told me that he wanted to marry me.... but this is all when he's drunk.So now we're just going back to the way things were between us. (except im more cautious this time). It's been like this for a while, but I don't want to be the one to bring up 'the talk' because he said ages ago that he doesn't want to be in any relationships.Even though I really really like him, and I can't help falling for him again, I want to know where I stand with him. Whether this is going anywhere, or if I'm just wasting my time. He also told me (when he was drunk) that he didn't want to be with anyone except me.Does it sound like he's interested and wants more?Any advice as to what I should do or think would be really appreciated!! Thanks a million x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2008): I have learned that when people are drunk they tend to be honest, wether they wanted to or not.
But you really should find out wether he wants to be in a relationship or not soon. It will be eaisier to handel it then latter. Trust me, that is exatly what happened with me and my ex. He wanted to be with but at the same time did not want to be with me. I held on for close to a year falling deeper in to the relationship, but then it stoped with no explantion only that he really did not want to be with me or was not ready for a relationship. So, find out soon wether he really wants to be with you, hopefully while he is sober.
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