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anonymous
writes:Im 16 years old, and ive just started seein this girl since sunday, the thing is we have always had a soft spot for each other but nothing really came of it, until sunday when i went to see her.So anyway sunday went great got along with her brilliantly, kissed her hugged her and all that, but now since sunday, she takes ages to reply to texts, before i went to see her, she was constantly textin me, complainin i take to long to text back and all that, but now its completely changed these last few days, i always have to text her 1st, she takes ages to text back (like hours) sometimes she doesnt until i text her askin her if she got my last text, and she will reply with something like, "sorry left my fone in the car" "sorry bbe" or sorry thought i did, even at this moment im waitin on a reply for a text i sent 4 hours ago.I really dont know if im being super paranoid or somethin, and i dont want to say anything to her incase i sound obsessed with her cause weve only been seein a few days, i mean its not even a relationship (yet she said) but im only reactin like this cause i reeeaaaaaallllyy like her, i really cant concentrate on anything else its drivin me insane seriously, Please someone give me some advice pllleeeeaaaaaseeeeee ??? lol
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reader, jaebest  +, writes (2 October 2008):
I have to say another possibility is that she just wanted to have around her finger. She just wanted you to like her to higher her self-esteem. Girls are sneaky. This sounds like a case, when a girl is bored and still wants to get confirmed that she is WANTED.
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reader, masquerade711  +, writes (2 October 2008):
 Believe it or not, girls find it just as annoying when a clingy guy steps into our life. I'm not saying you're being clingy because it doesn't sound that way, but perhaps things are moving too fast for her.
The only way to know for sure is to sit down and tell her, point blank, "I want to be with you. But I don't want to wait around forever. I deserve more than that. I do not deserve to be yanked around like a puppet on a string and if you're not interested in being my girlfriend, I would like to know now so that I can try to move on."
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (1 October 2008):
 Go back to how you used to be. Stop texting so much, etc. Maybe she will start to miss you again. If not, maybe say the same things she used to say to you, "You take too long to text back, etc."
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