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writes:I'm 16. I went out with this guy (17 y/o) for 3 months - May, June and July. Things were great in the beginning and he had been in previous relationships, but I hadn't. We didn't kiss or do anything like that.. I used to hug only, because as it was my first boyfriend and the first guy who truly liked me for me, I was shy and scared and he understood perfectly.However, in July he broke up with me telling me he didn't have feelings for me anymore, and that he really liked someone else.I really really really liked him, I've never liked anyone as much as him. And for the first time a guy actually liked me back. I never would've thought he would like me, but he did.So things didn't work out, he left me because he said that he did like this other girl and they were not official either.. so he was dating both of us which is understandable because in my school alot of people do that so I wasn't surprised. But he moved on and made her his girlfriend. He's in my school in pretty much all of my lessons, he's in my class everyday, so I have to see him everyday and he doesn't talk, acts like he cannot see me or hear me and he just lives his life and I live mine.I literally cry myself to sleep every night because I just cannot get over him.And I'm not able to go out and have fun with friends because I fractured my leg and i'm not able to go out to take my mind off of him.I'm trying to move on, but it's so hard when he's in most of my lessons and I see him everyday, everywhere I go as my school isn't very big.What do I do? It's already been 10weeks since he left me and I can't seem to get over him, my feelings are just not going away, they grow stronger and stronger day by day, even though we don't speak.You may thing I'm young and I have my whole life ahead of me and time to meet other guys, but I'm not the type of person to start meeting new guys to get over someone else.And yes I may be young, but I liked him since January but I never told him or anyone else and then he told me he liked me in May and I was so shocked and so happy because I've never had a guy like me before..And for the first time, the guy I liked, liked me back.I'm just stuck, yesterday I spoke to him and he said to me on MSN ''i never meant to hurt you, i didnt plan to hurt your feelings and i have nothing against you, you haven't done anything and i honestly don't hate you''.Then today I had one lesson with him and he was talking to my friend but not me :SIm just extremely stuck! I dont think he likes me anymore. He hasn't said anything to anyone because nobody has asked him if he still likes me, but he knows I stil have feelings for him.He might or he might not. I know that him and his girlfriend are not together anymore because it didn't work out so he is currently single.I wouldn't want to get back with him.. I'm just lost in confusion and I dont know where to go with this.Thanks
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reader, foster123 +, writes (1 October 2008):
Hey
ive joined this thing today and you're the first person iv ever given advice to over this thing.
firstly, im not going to judge you, im 20 and i know what it's like being in love with someone.
the guy that u really like, i think he sounds like a genuinly nice guy. he spoke to u on msn and said he doesnt hate u, and that u didnt do anything wrong. i think u should remember that. he probably spoke to ur friend and not you because he knows how bad you are feeling and he doesn't want to embarras you or make you feel awkward.
it is difficult moving on, but it's something you will do in your own time. one day u will wake up and he wont be the first thing u think of. ur only 16, confidence will come with age, beleive me, iv been there myself. there are plenty of nice guys out there..and u will find one that will feel the same way one day.
hope this helps :)
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