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She says she just wants to be friends, but I want more!

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Question - (19 November 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I asked the girl I liked out, but she says she just wants to be friends. So how do I get her to be my girlfriend?

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A male reader, handy man United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2009):

Hey I'm in the same situation, I really like this girl and find it really hard to not be really flirty with her. I asked her out and she said no, ends up she might now like me. But in the mean time I've been told to be great friends and get loads of hugs and stuff (really good). Ask her again in a month or two and if she says no just find someone else (I know its hard) Good luck

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A male reader, dragonhai Azerbaijan +, writes (3 April 2009):

i want more but shes nto older guys and im just to much of the "friend type" but i want more!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008):

You need to accept what she says. It could be that she just needs time in which case you could try being friends for a while and then things might develop from there, but don't build up your hopes.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2008):

You wait a while and show her how great you are to hang out with and how romantic you can be and then you try again.

If she still says no then accept it and move on.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (19 November 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntI would leave a flower in her locker, or a card, and then try asking her out ONE more time after that. If she still only wants to be friends after trying twice, then I would just have to accept that as her final answer and move on. Good Luck!

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