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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI guess I must be a bit of a patsy then! - But love does strange things to people!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (21 November 2008):
 patsy = sucker, gutton for punishment
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reader, Teacake +, writes (21 November 2008):
 Patsy - a person who is easily manipulated or victimized : pushover
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhats a patsy?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 November 2008):
I don't see why that would change anything except that it makes you even more of a patsy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionActually, the guy in question seems more interested in my money than sex! - Now is that cheating?
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reader, leni  +, writes (20 November 2008):
its cheating and you know it. as the other post says, wait until you are happy with a man, then you find out he has been phoning another woman, it is not right to mess with another woman's man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): Quite simply YES it is the start of cheating thats why he only calls you when it suits him, thats because he has a partner and can only call when she is not around, sounds like you are setting yourself up to be used for one thing, SEX when he can get away from his partner,he is not and never will tell you that he does get on with his partner, thats not what you want to hear, so he will always tell you that they have a bad relationship, its called taking away his guilt, these sort of men always play on sympathetic emmotions and you are getting sucked in by it. Dump him and find a nice available man who only wants to be with you, you won't regret, imagine sitting on Christmas day waiting on a call but he can't get away because his partner wants a bit of special time, thats the future.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (19 November 2008):
Yes, this is cheating. And he is leading you on. Men hardly ever leave their wives so what do you want exactly? You hardly know him, he is a sneak, he won't leave her but he will use you... so how is this going to work out in a positive way?
You are just as wrong as he is for allowing him to chase another woman. This is very disrespectful of both of you. Wait until this happens to you and you will see how hurtful it is for your man to be chasing others.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): Call him and ask his partner.you will see the true colors of the guy then.He is trouble with a capital T.My humble advice would be to cut connections totally with the guy
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 November 2008):
Then yes I would consider what you are doing is cheating, and you are going to get the raw deal I'm afraid. And it's a big no duh on whether you can trust him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell - I would like something more - but he obviously is scared to move on from the phone calls!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 November 2008):
What's in this for you? You just like chatting on the phone?
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reader, X-Imi-X  +, writes (19 November 2008):
 Heyahh. Keep ringing him and texting him, when he says he'll fone and does. Pick an arguement and make him realise what a gem he's lost. He'll soon phone you on time next time! Cheating because hes foning you? I dont think so... unless hes saying dirty things to you! Hope this helps. Email me how everything works out x
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