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*illykumquat12
writes:Ok so, I've never had a boyfriend. I have guys who are friends, personally they are easier to get along with than guys, but i've never actually had a relationship. I can always seem to be friends with guys, but nothing beyond that. I'm about 6 foot tall, bright blue eyes, and dark blonde hair. I'm not a stick person, but i'm not overweight either. I don't know what the problem is. Will it ever happen for me?
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reader, Everoth +, writes (19 November 2008):
 i'm where you are at...."it will happen some day", all I can say is continue talking to guys and you're bound to make a connection, but hey if you REALLY want to give yourself a chance, you can do this
talk to one new guy a day (or guys you dont talk to often/know of but don't know well), by the end of one week you will have spoken to seven new guys, by the end of a month you will have spoken to thirty to thirty one new guys and by the end of the year you will have spoken to 365 guys and if you keep going at that then chances say you'll find someone!
if you do that then i truly admire your determination, but i guess the most frustrating part is that finding the "right" person is beyond our control and this is where patience comes in, just do what I do, leave all this love stuff to a higher power and get on with your life, get into a good university, get good grades, make good friends and enjoy life and you won't even realize whats "missing" in your life until you find them, at which point you'll be glad for their presence, i hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): Hmm... perhaps you panic. Or maybe you make close friends too easily - the prospect of having a relationship with a close friend can be quite scary as there is so much to lose should it go wrong. Maybe you're just not giving off the flirtatious signals. I think maybe you should ask some of your guy mates why they saw you as a friend rather than a potential partner. Come back and let us know how you got on and I'll give you some more advice. If you want you can mail me =]
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