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writes:Okay so i like this guy who's 18 and im a 15 yr old female. i have such strong feelings for him we've met and have hung out and text 24/7 non stop and we know each other and have good times, when were together. i love this boy alot and when i told him i liked him he said he wouldnt date cause of the age cause of something that happened with his friend and he got in trouble. i wanna spend the rest of my life with this guy hes everything i wanted and when i was with another guy all i saw was him i cant picturing being with any other guy besides him i really dont know what to do. im soo head over heels with him ....Help.!
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reader, Ed1337  +, writes (19 November 2008):
 Ask him to wait for you until you reach 16 and see if you still feel the same way about him then. When I was 18/19 I had a 14/15 year old after me, it wasn't the age gap that was the problem, it was her age.
At 18/19 guys like to do certain things with their g/f and some guys like me think its wrong to have sex with someone who is under aged.
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reader, Johnny Bananas +, writes (19 November 2008):
Okay so i like this guy who's 18 and im a 15 yr old female.
*3 years in not a bad age difference. It's the age thing.
i love this boy alot
*Boy?? He is not 15. He is 18 so therefore he is a guy and you're a girl.
*Love?? Are you sure you are mature enough to understand what love is. Love is such a strong word that shouldn't be thrown around unless you really know the true meaning of it.
when i told him i liked him he said he wouldnt date cause of the age cause of something that happened with his friend and he got in trouble
*You told him you liked him. That scares a good majority of guys. Especially if it's coming from a teenager. I can see why his friend got in trouble. 18 year old sleeping with a minor= staturory rape thus, this is an illegal matter in the US and the adult will get some good jail time.
i wanna spend the rest of my life with this guy hes everything i wanted and when i was with another guy all i saw was him i cant picturing being with any other guy besides him i really dont know what to do. im soo head over heels with him
*For god sakes, you're 15!!! This is going to be one of many guys you've fell head over heels for. Obviously the maturity is lacking so that is probably one of the reasons he won't date you.
CONCLUSION: Don't obsess over this guy. One your relationship with him is a very risky one because of the age not the difference of age. He is thinking of himself and the legal side of what could happen if you two were to hook up. You're 15! Grow up and experience the world before deciding to have a life start at such a young age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008):
Its not going out that he is worried about its that it makes him look like a pedo - if he truely wanted to be with you he would have waited. try to find someone your own age where theres more in common and at 15 you have the rest of your life to think about !!!!
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