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writes:ok so i theres this boy who i been talking to the past 2 or 2 1/2 years but we only see each other over the summer when he comes by where i live and we hangout alot then but during the year when hes not here we talk on the phone almost every night and i really like him alot n he says he likes me too. so last summer we were in bed together n i decided it had been a loong time so i decided i was gonna have sex with him. [hed been trying to for a long time but i never allowed it cus i didnt want to be 'easy'] so anyways he was hard and when he was about about to take off my clothes n we were going to have sex he just wasnt as hard anymore and it made me feel like i was unappealing or something but i dont think he was thinking that cus then y would he spend so much time telling me how much he liked me n stuff? and he was trying to get hard but it didnt really work...do u think it had something to do with me or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, A113YX33 +, writes (12 November 2008):
A113YX33 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys that made me feel better!:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): NO!!.. idk what it is but its defintely not you. because i had a similar case where i was with the girl of my dreams.. i found he so attractive and everything.. but it just wouldnt stay hard.. i think maybe its overthinking about it.. bad pressure.. if it happens again just try to make him comfortable and dont let it get to u or him.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (11 November 2008):
 After reading this, I was just thinking that this was a case of "opening night jitters" -- was this the first time that you two had ever gotten this close before? If so, then I definitely think it might have been just his nervousness overshadowing him and possibly preventing him from performing. To that I say DEFINITELY don't take it personally!
If this is something that's happened on many occasions, then you might want to be concerned, but if you're sure his affections are there, then we're (possibly) talking about something physiological or psychological going here... if that's the case, then there might be some concern (on his part) to have himself checked out by a medical professional. Above all, don't walk around with the stigma that it's anything you are causing or not doing.
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