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writes:Still heartbroken after 6 weeks!!How long does hearbreak last for? I have really strong feelings for a man that I didn't really know too long but we did ring and meet up! He's not the best guy in the world and doesn't worry about keeping in touch with me unless he wants something but I just can't get him out of my head!Everytime there is a gap in contact I get really low and start to cry - but how long will this last? I would do anything for him and am not really wanting another man!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): Sounds like you may have been hoping for too much from him.
Maybe you need to build up your social life and find some new interests, join a class or club and meet new people?
The heartache will wear off, but you need to help it by doing some enjoyable things.
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reader, shiraz +, writes (11 November 2008):
hiyah, nobody can say how long it will go on for , as its entirely up to you! its so hard when omething like this knocks you down especially when it comes across as nothing to the other person involved. its ok to be low for a bit and cry and let it all out, it helps you in a way but you cannot stay like it for this amount of time! come on become yourself again, use this as an advantage to become your own independant free person again, it doesnt have to turn the other way.
hes not bothered so it seems so pick your self up and find that someone worthy, have your fun in doing so! you say you dont need another man and yet this one is no longer interested surely this tells you something? your better than it so find yourself better.
sort yourself out first emotionally and mentally hes mixed up your emotions for sometime and its going to be hard to get over him but it seems hes already there, let this one go even f it may not feel right now looking back in the long run youll see it for yourself.
yu cant find that love in everyone and sometimes although its hard to accept its not with the one you badly want it too be.
it will get better, you just need to look and feel brighter for you to get there.
best of luck xxx
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