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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I just found out that my boyfried of 5 years is calling chat lines and he has given his number out to this women. He didn't know that I had his password to his cell phone. I told him about the massage I heard and he told me he just does it when he is around his friends and co-workers becouse he don't want to feel left out. We had a long talk and he said that it would not happen again. What do you think about that?
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reader, xoby +, writes (9 December 2008):
i do believe it is normal to act different around your friends , specially guys, but another thing is crossing the line and doing something that could lose your trust. There is no need in giving his number out just to feel cool. When the girls call it no longer has anything to do with his friends, once he it out of work it is only him and there is no reason to "fit in" when being alone. I think if u don't live with him he might be dating random chat room girls. If he's not honest dump the loser u need some one that is going to try to "fit in" into your expectations of an honest relationship not his coworkers.hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): Chatting online is one thing, but when he starts giving his phone number out, it's something to be concerned about!
As women, I think we know in out "gut" when something is wrong in a relationship. I would give him a second chance, but trust your gut!
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