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writes:Hi there I am 19 years old and I am in love with a man that is 40 years older than me, he is married and has children. I don't know what to do, I have a boyfriend that I also love, I want to be with them both, but I know I can't. I can't stop thinking about the older man please help, any advice??
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2008): If i were you, id would end all conversation with this man. Unless u like the thought of being the other woman. I was in a simular situation with a married man, he was 32 years older then me and had just got married and now has a baby on the way with her. I was crazy for him and i didnt care wether i was the other woman or not, as long as i had his attention, but after a while things just got old and i finally relized this is all it would ever be, that he just wanted me to boost his ego. Most of the times these things never work out and u just end up hurt. I wish u the best of luck.
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 Older men, married men love their ego boosted by a pretty, innocent young girl. He is going to hurt you and his entire family in the end.
Just realize if he is leading you on, flirting in ways that you think there is a chance.... he is manipulating you and being very dishonest with his wife.
One day you will be 40 and married and how would you feel if you found out your husband was fooling around with a teenager?
Never never never "be friends" with a married man. It is too tempting for them to resist. Be a good example to him and don't give him what he wants. Hopefully you won't have to deal with a cheating husband.
And talktoomuch is right. 99.9% man NEVER leaves his wife for another woman. Unless he is a sicko bastard - never for a teenager. You are just having normal teenage longings for a father figure to love and take care of you.
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