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30-35,
*ngellove14
writes:Dear cupid,From the dawn of time my mom has told me to save sex for marriage, condom's don't always work, and guys will say anything to get sex. so now that i finally have a boyfriend my mom constantly asks me if he's been touching or grabbing me. i tell her he hasn't but in reality he has once i told him no. he tries agian from time to time but the answer is always the same. but my mother refuses to believe i'm not doing anything. how do i get her to trust me?fromNO! I didn't
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reader, vamp-gal  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 You have to prove to your mum that you are a responsible girl, and a mature girl, who wouldn't dream of doing something like that, or go against her wishes, if they're that strong.
You should sit and have a talk with your mum, about how you know you won't do anything until you are ready to do anything, and how you are mature enough and strong enough to say no, and mean it.
It's just parenting, parents get worried when there child has a boyfriend (mainly, I try not to think that way, but it seems that it's mainly the parents of girls, which I find quite insulting...lol, anyway), they suddenly get more protective of you, they just don't want you to get hurt.
But like I said, go to your mum and show her how responsible and mature you are, she'll still keep an eye out, but that's just what mums do, look out and take care of their children, but she should trust you more and more as time goes on.
Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): Just keep reasuring her. And keep telling him no!
Your mother is right about guys. And she's concerned because she loves you. You are very young and you need to stand your ground with your boyfriend. If he doesn't respect your wishes, you don't need him. Trust me someone who does respect you will come along. And when the time is right you'll know! I admire you for listening to your mother. She knows!
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