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He hasn't kissed me in a year. But he finds time to watch porn. what should I do?

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Question - (28 April 2015) 8 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2015)
A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend hasn't kissed me romantically in years. We barely have sex, and it is boring, always the same position.

He watches very x rated lesbian porn and knows it bothers me and he obviously doesn't care.

He is obsessed with woman and is constantly making comments with me in the room, I hate it.

Maybe if he showed me some attention I might feel wanted but thats not the case.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2015):

You may have a bit of low self-esteem. Best to start valuing yourself and get rid of that disrespectful jerk. I am so sorry dear. I hope you find that courage.

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A female reader, like I see it United States +, writes (28 April 2015):

like I see it agony auntYou deserve so much better than that.

Leave your loser boyfriend to his porn ADDICTION (because that's what it is) and find a man who will treat you right.

Good luck and best wishes!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2015):

He is a loser.

You deserve better.

You can do better.

Now, go get started!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (28 April 2015):

eyeswideopen agony auntYep, time to trade up Dear.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (28 April 2015):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntSoooo.... you haven't had a kiss that's worth a darn "in years"??.... your "boyfriend" watches lesbian porn, all the while ignoring YOU.....and YOU call him a "boyfriend"?????

I'd call him a "jerk"... and distance myself from him... and never give him another thought.....

Good luck..

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (28 April 2015):

Honeypie agony auntWhy waste ANY MORE time on this guy? Seriously?

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A male reader, WiseOwlE United States + , writes (28 April 2015):

Get a new boyfriend.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada + , writes (28 April 2015):

BrownWolf agony aunt

Why are you complaining?!?! You have a guy who does not give you what you want or respect you. So what do you do? Sit around feeling sorry for yourself as if your BF is the only man on the Earth.

Boyfriends and girlfriend are those we test to see if they are life long partners. If at this stage he is already showing you this side of him, you do what? Complain and feel bad??? NO! You find someone else who will make a good life long partner.

Husbands and wives you fight to keep...boyfriends and girlfriend you learn what you like and don't like in a partner.

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