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writes:I fell pregnant and the father of my baby denied paternity of the baby, he has now started dating someone i work with and (truly and honestly) i dont have a problem with their relationship, the problem i have is that this girl seem to be boasting around and mocking me about the fact that he is now the woman in his life. i try so hard to keep my cool, otherwise people will think im bitter, the only thing i am bitter about is her attitude, it is really starting to get to me. how do i ignore this woman and her antics? im really short tempered and when i do get angry, i does not turn into a pretty sight, now that is the sight i dont want people to know. help me with my anger management, how do i remain calm and or should i confront this woman? please help!
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (19 January 2011):
Ofcourse I do not know the whole story behind this, but judging from what you've written, this is what I'd do:
Smile at her whenever she mocks you because clearly she is only mocking herself. Let's face it, a guy who impregnates a girl and then does not take responsibility for the consequences is not a good catch. Not at all. So now she's got him and parading that fact around like he's a trophy while it's the complete opposite of that.
Seriously if I were that girl I would not be happy about his lack of loyalty to you and his child. So laugh it off girl. Give her that knowing chuckle and maybe she'll realize one day that she's the stupid one. You know how they say: "if you can't spot the sucker, the sucker is you." And in her case, this is what's going on.
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