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writes:I really need some clarification, ok there is a guy I have liked a a couple of years and always seemed like he was into me as well, we have had a couple of snogs, but like months apart, he has recently said he fancys me but he never asks me out, I have sort of made offers but he never takes me up on them, but what does he want, if he really fancied me, he would have asked me out - right! or is it just the way guys try to get girl by acting cool because they don't want to be rejected he know I fancy him. Reply to this Question
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reader, LauraB +, writes (2 September 2009):
 i'm sorry to say this hunni, but i really dont think he likes you as much as you like him! If he did like u alot then he would do anything to get you.Maybe try a few things like...*not seeming "so into him" so much.*not kissing him when he wants to kiss you.*playing hard to get.men like a bit of a challenge, i know this from my boyfriend he always says if i women is too "available" men become a little lazy because they feel they have nothing to work for!and by my own experience it works a treat.i fancied this boy like mad a few years ago before i met my current boyfriend and i was always asking to see him and he was like yeah yeah we will sort it out! but he never did. so my friends all said delete his number so i did. after a few weeks of not contacting him he finally rang and asked why i hadnt called! then he became the one who wanted to stuff. so yeah maybe try and seem not so bothered hun! then at least if he doesnt try with u then u know he is a waste of space. find yourself someone who is worth your effort! good luck xx
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