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writes:I have harboured feelings for a girl for over a year and a half and after finally finding enough courage to ask her out, I was rejected because she 'doesn't do commitment.' I'm not angry with her or anything because we've been best friends for two years but this is the first time I've ever hinted about my feelings, but now I've been left emotionally wounded. It's the first time I've ever asked a girl out and being rejected because she likes flirting too much is not what you want to hear after more tan a year of hiding any sign of emotion. I don't particularly like any other girl I know, at least not as much as I like her, and I'm not some sort of serial dater like most people I know, who get through girls at a rate of knots. I'd just like some advice on what to do next, whether to try and win her over or just leave her to flirting with whoever she wants. Thanks for any advice you can give me, it will be much appreciated.
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reader, AgonyAuntBlondiee +, writes (1 September 2009):
 You have to accept what she's said. You could ask her is there any way she may consider a relationship with you in the future? But don't pressurise her just tell her it would help you know where you stand.
At least she has been honest and made her feelings clear, this can allow you to move on more painlessly. She does not feel ready to settle down at the moment and that is her choice and you have to accept that.
Though it may not feel like it at the moment there are plenty more fish in the sea! Good luck :)
Hope this helps :)
AgonyAuntBlondiee x
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