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Why doesn't my girlfriend seem to enjoy kissing?

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Question - (1 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2009)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

So the me and my girlfriend have only kissed once. I love my girlfriend more than anything in the world but we've only kissed one time. We've been dating for about 6 months now, she's 14 and I'm 16, we do everything except kiss (and sex of course), I don't know why we just don't. Before we kissed for the first time I wanted to kiss her so bad, every time I saw her I just looked at her lips and wanted to push my self into it, then one night I was at her house and we were out messing around and I kissed her on the head then the cheek, then the cheek again and all over her face until I finally kissed her on the lips. Don't get me wrong I loved it even though it lasted maybe a half a second, It was the longest most magical second of my life, I felt terrific the rest of the night, I was pretty much in my own little world for a while. Anyway this was a few months ago and we haven't kissed since. I want to do it again but I haven't been able to, What should I do, when is the perfect time, how should I do it.

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A female reader, loveu2010 United Kingdom +, writes (23 December 2009):

loveu2010 agony aunthmm well just go for it i was like that at first then he made the first move it was great and now im fine with kissing him in publc hope this helps

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009):

OK,..I don't know if you have ever seen pretty woman..its obviously a chick flick so probably not..anyways in the movie Julia Roberts is a prostitute and she does everything but kiss..she says its to personal..I completely agree..kissing is pretty much the gateway to everything and my bf have been dating for two years come Valentines Day and the first year all we did is make out and fool around..i didn't tell him i loved him for a really long time but the kissing is what started the and my bf have had MAJOR problems and have worked though them and i know from personal experience that honesty and communication is the best way so talk to your gf..ask her about it..and if it doesnt work out obviously she isnt right for you..but you gotta bust the bubble sometimes

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