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This guy sent me a text message saying he wants me. Should I confront him next time or leave it as it is?

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Question - (26 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2009)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

This guy is a player...I met as a customer who helped me close a deal. He has a GF and he's GI also. I know he doesn't like me and although he's cute, he's not my type.

He went out w/ some buddies and I got a message last night from his cell saying he wants me so bad. I replied asking if he was drunk or he if he had the wrong girl...he replied what did I wanted it to be...I didn't replied.

He called me today but he was kinda embarrassed and didn't mentioned anything. He talked for work. I don't know if it was him or his pals playing a joke. Should I confront him next time or leave it as it is?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009):

Sorry.. i meant if something isn't said.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009):

If it were me, i would just say something like

"ok.. There's obvously some weirdness here about the othet night.. so can we just agree to put it behind us and not let it affect how we get along?"

Because I can't really see things getting less tense if somethign is said.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (26 April 2009):

Danielepew agony auntI agree with the girls. If he had any interest, this is not the way to show it, and his conditions are not right.

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A female reader, kaylagal United States +, writes (26 April 2009):

kaylagal agony auntSounds like someone is playing games on you. Maybe they have a bet on you. I would ignore it and make him and his friends the fools. Don't confront him, just let it go. If he continues, be firm and tell him to leave you alone.

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A female reader, bobbles32 Canada +, writes (26 April 2009):

bobbles32 agony auntIf it were me, I'd leave it be. He has a girlfriend so he sounds shady if he's texting other girls messages like that. Sounds like someone to stay away from.

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