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writes:my ex boyfriend and i have 2 kids together however i have a new boyfriend and its court ordered that my new boyfriend not have contact with our two kids i want to know how he can dictate this and also why he has a new girlfriend and baby and shes around the kids, spends the night and all how can i change this and have my boyfriend around the kids? Also i want to marry my new boyfriend of a year now and i dont know what to do since he cant have contact with the kids but i have another child by someone else who he is around with no complaints from her father help any answers? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): well its alot to explain but yes my new bf does have misdermenor charges however, they have nothing to do with endangering children. like i stated he is around my 11 year and has opposed no danger to her not to mention i would not allow someone who would indanger my children to be around them. yes i had a lawyer. its been a year since i went court and i feel this is unfair because number one when he is suppose to have them he ships them to his moms its like he has time for her and their new baby and her 6 year old but not his own also when he does have them she spends the nite. just recently i called him he would not answer his phone so i called hers and ask to speak to him she cussed me to no end. i was trying to see where to drop of the girlz cause it was his day and one called home sick and he told me i had to keep her till 3:00 why wouldnt he want to spend time with her? he dosent have a job neither does she he claims cause he didnt want his baby sick the new one he has with her. now since all this i never said nothing about her being around the girlz but feel she had no right to cuss me like that and i dont want the girlz around her soo what do i do? they cant be around my bf and im want to marry this guy soon im lost????
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reader, pebble  +, writes (26 April 2009):
 Why is the court order in place? Does your old boyfriend think the new boyfriend poses a danger of some sort?
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (26 April 2009):
 I don't understand how he got a court order against your BF. The only way I think a family services judge would grant one would be if your BF has a criminal record.
Do you have an attorney? If not, get one. Now. Because you're right, if your BF has done nothing wrong, then why should your exes new GF be around the kids?
You need professional help to argue your custodial rights for you. But any court order should have stated why your BF cannot be around the kids.
Know your rights, get an attorney.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): I need a little more info, what is the reason that he went to court to get the order?
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