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Is it my personality they are attracted to?

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Question - (26 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 April 2009)
A male Sweden age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hello all,

well i will have to explain first before my quesiton so please follow :),

okay im 18 guys with normal face and a nice body (178 cm,75kg).

there are many girls in school who are attracted to me and not to anyone of my group or friends!!!

though there are some guys who are much handsom than me and they dont get that much attention or attraction like me!

i even talk with my self and say why they just want to be with me and do i deserve to be with them??

i mean there are many guys more handsom and they just dont get what i get!

this is problem is making me crazy!

so what is the reason, is it my personality?, is it who do i treat people?

when a girl likes a boy , why should she likes him, cuz of his face or body or eyes or confidence ......

thanks...

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A male reader, the_phoenic United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2009):

went throught the same problem when i was at your age,

especially that i am overweighted and therefor at that time i never saw my self as good looking or handsome

and infact i was and still very shy..

but later on i found that girls think that i am very hadsome and good loocking for some reason !!

offcourse if you had a bad personality they would have avoided you,

but as long as they are gathering arround you in the way that you describe then trust me they think that you are very handsome and good looking

finally women have different (( better )) standards then men

have fun mate..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009):

Why is this driving you crazy again?

Why is it a problem again?

Quit making up problems that aren't even there, Capo.. You'll encounter plenty of REAL problems in life, no need to make any up.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (26 April 2009):

Danielepew agony auntMan, I wish I had your problem! Enjoy!

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