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writes: I am 19yrs old and this person I want to be with is 15yrs old. The law is what's keeping us apart. We have known eachother for 11yrs or so and have had a connection for 5yrs. I have always thought I was sick in the head for feeling this way about someone so young but I finally accepted it. He is the most amazing guy I have ever met. He has loved me since he was a kid and I thought even when we lost touch for a few years he would get over me but he hasn't and never will and I finally relized I've always loved him as well. He is more mature than most 22yr olds I know and we are great when we see eachother. We have only had 2 small fights in 11years! And we communicate really well about everything. The thing is the age of consent where I live is 17 and I don't know if even just kissing or dating is legal. So u see how do we deal with not being able to be together for another 2years? I know the wait is worth it and I don't mind waiting but I'm also afraid that I might be to late for him like he would find someone else and not feel the same because that's usually how it works
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): In the grand scheme of things, 4 years difference is nothing, and two years will go by before you know it.The law says nothing about kissing, petting, etc. Besides, the age of consent varies widely round the world (it's much less than 17 in some countries), and the only way you would get in trouble is if he, or his parents, decided to go to the police and press charges. If his parents are religious fanatics who would freak out if they discovered you were intimate, you should probably play it safe and wait. Otherwise...
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (12 April 2009):
 If he loves you as much as you love him, he will also wait!
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