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writes: I'm dating a girl who everyone says she's a loser (which she isn't) and I'm being treated differently for it. When we started dating all my friends kept saying need to dump her. She put up with a lot of crap from everyone (like jocks, popular girls and teachers). She keeps saying I'm going to leave because of what other people (not true). What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, sexi  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 Hi
Just be there for her. Keep reassuring her that you love her for who she is and that you think she is a wonderful person. You should keep trying to convince her otherwise - Im sure she would soon start to believe you if you keep this up.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): She's got low confidence, who can blame her?? just tell her your never dated her in the first place if you cared what other people think.
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female
reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 I'm with Tremor here. You have showed amazing character for not falling against peer pressure.
Also, another way to convince her you'll stay, besides on keeping on assuring her, is to show it through actions, which you have done so very good. Also, if you think it right for the moment, defend her from the people who attack her; it will show it to her that you care deeply.
Good luck and I wish you years of happines!
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female
reader, Tremor  +, writes (5 September 2008):
 Well first of all, I must applaud you for sticking by your lady, especially at your age when everyone is so wrapped up in repuation. Good on you.
The best thing you can do for you girl is just reassure her. Stick up for her if people are mean, send her notes saying you're thinking of her and that she's special. let her know that you care - not just when she's had a hard day, but all the time. Give her a hug for no reason at all, that kind of thing.
Good luck!
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