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writes:My sex drive seems to be at its highest when I have my period, but my boyfriend isn't keen on the idea of sex then because he doesn't like blood. I have never tried having sex on my period. Is it commonly done? What are people's views on it? I don't want to mess up the sheets but I would like to be intimate at this time. Any tips?
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reader, Mark25 +, writes (6 September 2008):
 Don't try to push him into having sex while you're on your period. Most men loathe the thought of it. It's something that I could never do. Men don't understand periods and find them gross. They're not gross but because we don't have them we automatically think "ewww". If your boyfriend doesn't want to have sex when it's your time of the month then it's wrong for you to keep pestering him. If he is just unsure and actually considering it then think of alternatives to the mess. Putting towels down or having sex in the shower. BUt most of all don't push him. Give him time. If he wants then he'll tell you.
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reader, Flubber79 +, writes (6 September 2008):
My GF was always worried about this, but it never really bothered me and she loved that!!! Try putting a towel down, that way it won't be too messy. If you're man is squeamish then there is probably not much you can do I'm afraid but just explain that you feel really horny at this time and if he's like me that will be a turn on in itself. Explain that it doesn't hurt you as that may be one of his fears. Basically talk to him about it and explain how horny you are and that should drive him crazy!!!
Best of luck. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2008): Careful with this; if your boyfriend is squeamish and you have period sex, you may wind up giving him an unpleasant vision that badly affects his ability to have sex with you in the future. Make sure you really understand how he feels before you do this, whereever you do it.
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reader, aschmit3  +, writes (5 September 2008):
You should try it in the shower. No mess and you can wash each other when your done =)
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reader, Belle De Jour +, writes (5 September 2008):
 dont have sex when your on your period . it isnt the best thing for you or your boyfrind . Your sex drive will be all over the place on your period because your hormones are not stable .i am sure that you could wat a week at the most 2 have sex .. but i wouldnt advise it .. xxx Belle x
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