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*andomBrandon
writes:I've been dating this girl for 4 months now. I really care about her. However, we'll both be going off to college in a few months. I know the chances of us being together forever are slim but I still can't stand to think of my life without her and I'm afraid that she'll want to separate so she can have fun in college. But i don't want to split. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Faybelline  +, writes (9 October 2008):
 Tell her how you feel; it can work if you want it to but you both have to want it. If she wants to split I'm afraid you can't do much about it though.If the two of you do split then, although it may seem hard at first, you'll find that you're so busy meeting new people and doing new things that it will make it that bit easier on you as you won;t constantly be thinking about it; you can immerse yourself in other things.You might find that, if you speak to her, she wants to stay together too. I know plenty of people that have gone to seperate universities and stayed together and it's worked and they are still together. There is no reason why it shouldn't be the same with you and your girlfriend.Good Luck!
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