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If my boyfriend fell asleep while I was giving him head, do I have the right to be pissed?

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Question - (9 October 2008) 12 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

If my boyfriend fell asleep while I was giving him head, do I have the right to be pissed?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008):

well, I was wondering the same thing... this happens to me too...and it has never happened to me with any of my boyfriends before him...he is 23 and i don't know how he can fall asleep...i get mad cuz he is the one who wants the sex then falls asleep, (he's freakin snoring right now!!!) so yea, I get pissed too :) I think it's normal to be pissed, maybe i'm wrong, but i think it's sh***y on his part.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008):

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yes I have since forgivin him, we both work hard but I told him next time don't start something u can't finish

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008):

Sadly has happened to me after the chap was tired and had a lot to drink - he started snoring and that was it. I was younger then and was very cross now I just think it is just funny. I think I was so upset because I was inexperienced and it made me think I wasn't doing it properly but in hindsight we had drunk an entire minbar dry so 25 years later I am going to let him off!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008):

I am a girl. I enjoy sex a lot with my bf. But once i fell asleep while he was licking me down there. It was b'cos I was so tired and sleepy, not because he was not doing it right. I don't know how it is for guys, but may be he was very sleepy and relaxed. I think you should forgive him this once! Enjoy !!! :)

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A female reader, Dree23 United States +, writes (9 October 2008):

I would have bitten down on it....no just kidding. Yes! You have the right to be pissed! This is something that men expect us to do and they bitch and whine when we don't. And for a guy to fall asleep? WTF?

Oh yeah....watch Superhead porn if you can. Her dick sucking techniques are marvelous and would prevent this from happening. Don't just delicately lick or suck on it....suck on it like you're trying to produce a nut or draw blood.

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A male reader, quarky United Kingdom +, writes (9 October 2008):

quarky agony auntYep, just about dropped off whilst 'getting down' I must admit!! And my ex actually did fall asleep once so it's not only the guys :-)

Maybe you can see the funny side? I think you should tease him mercilessly about it (in a fun way) for at least 3 weeks!! That's what me and the ex did-had a laugh and teased each other about it-and would expect no less!! I wouldn't make an issue of it cos it may affect the fun bit!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2008):

just dont do it anymore he will miss it and appolagise

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A female reader, ROSETTE43 United States +, writes (9 October 2008):

I would not be pissed off he should be at his self because he missed it! lol

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (9 October 2008):

hlskitten agony auntToo right! did happen to me once, even though he denied it, in fact it wasn't whilst I was doing something to him, it was when he was...well you get the picture. But to be honest, its no reflection on you, it is literally tiredness!

C xxxxx

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A male reader, seculardude United States +, writes (9 October 2008):

Was he really tired at the time? Seems he wasn't all that much into it. Like the other reader i'd say refrain from BJ's for a while if you think he's taking them for granted.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2008):

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I actually left and went home after giving him a few choice words,

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (9 October 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntide be like hey wtf ? you cant fall asleep you beep beep beep. then roll over and not let him have any for a while teach the boy a lesson heheheh.. good luck aphexy xx

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