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Tell me about your first time. Was it romantic? Was it fun? Was it what you expected?

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Question - (9 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *aileeKS writes:

Tell me about your first time. Was it romantic? Was it fun? Was it what you expected?

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (9 October 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntMy first time was awesome... sort of. I had waited (mostly thanks to a lack of eligible fellas by my standards) and when I was 19 I moved out to Portland and finally felt that right chemistry with the right fella. We waited three months and then finally I decided that it was right.

Well, we tried for a solid MONTH, but it wouldn't work! He didn't fit! It wouldn't go in!! I chalk this up now to his size and my nerves, but believe me... longest month of my life. When it finally actually happened, it was great. A little painful - but after a month of pain, that was nothing. Talk about not expected - taking a month to lose ones virginity!!

It was romantic - maybe not in that traditional candles, Al Green and flower petals everywhere kind of way, but in our own personal fashion. It was completely fun, all though I did cry after it was over. Happy tears, happy tears for sure.

We're still together now, three years later and I'm sure glad that I waited for him. It's been fun ever since!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2008):

Painful.Painful.More painful.a bit messy as well.Both of us were virgins.had read lots of theory.but practicals is different isn't it.It was fun till the main event.Took a long time to get used to it,almost 3 months.:).am still with the same guy.Its fun.fun.more fun now.:))

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A female reader, hello kitty 101 United States +, writes (9 October 2008):

hello kitty 101 agony auntmy first time was with someone i thought i loved i was 15 and he was 30 it was not sweet or romantic it was like just get it over i wish i could take it back and have it with guy im with now no i hated it i thought it would be better than it was i always thought it would be a candle lit with strawberries and whipcream with rose petals all over the place and for him to carry me to the bed and lay me gently but its not like that

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