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writes:Im 16 my ex is 17.What does it mean when someone says 'you are not beneficial to me?' while dating (unofficially).My ex said that and I think he meant i'm not going to go 'things' with him and so he doesn't think i'm going to benefit him?
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reader, bfly36  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 If "doing" things is referring to sex, then it means he probably more interested in sex than you. And you dont need a man like that in your life, trust me. He will be inconsiderate of your needs and use you. No one should "have" to have sex to be with you, especially at your age. If you are still a virgin it's best you stay that way until you meet someone that gets to know you for the person you are and not how you can 'BENEFIT" him. Be selfish and worry about YOU!!!
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reader, IRDave +, writes (11 October 2008):
 Well if he think that he's not worth the time of day and I wouldn't give it to him.
Saying your not beneficial to him is basically him saying you are not doing him any good and that he could do without you. If he thinks that I would certainly move on to pastures new, you don't deserve this treatment.
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