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writes:im 23 years old, ive been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now. i know i love her n i know she loves me...we treat eachother with respect, rarley ever argue...but alot of times i find myself thinking of what if i was with someone else. i think i want a change but on the other hand i want to be with her. this has been a huge thing on my mind for a few months now. she is talking about getting married n having a family, and im not so sure i want to even think about that yet. or in that matter even get married to her. we did break up for a little bit a few months ago but we kinda just drifted back together because it would have been to hard for me to see her with someone else. is it common to getkind of bored when your with someone for so long? or are my feelings unfair to her and i should end it? if im bored now what dose that say we would be like in 15 years? please give me some advice i would greatly appreciate it. Reply to this Question
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reader, hello kitty 101 +, writes (9 October 2008):
 yeah its normal it just means you spend to much together you just need to give each other some time apart and see how that works 4 you
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reader, cheekyme  +, writes (9 October 2008):
 If your having doubts about being with her then maybee you shud end it, if you think its not going anywere why let it go on longer because that will destroy her more.But all i must say is DONT DO ANYTHING YOU THINK YOU MIGHT REGRET. think long hard and seriously about the desicion you are going to make!!!! that is a lesson i have learned, i ended a relationship and would not take them back, and just a month or so later they was moving on and i wanted them back, the saying ' you never no what you have untill you loose it ' is so true i thought i had got bored but when i lost him it was hard to get him back and i was so upset and i wanted him bk i regreted letting go of him. so what im trying to say is; if you dont think its going anywere and you dont want to be with her end it.But if you are unsure and think you could make it work at least trybut please just think hard about wat u are goin to do, please dont do anything you regret cos u wont live it down! trust me!
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reader, abby5000 +, writes (9 October 2008):
its totally normal to get boered. try spicing it up. go on vacation. get kinky. talk to her about the need to spice things up. she will likely agree. dont throw it away, its hard to find something good. my brother got bored with a woman he really loved... and broke up w her 2 mnths later accidently got some chick pregnant, it was the worst mistake of his life he now says.
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