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female
age
30-35,
*carme07
writes:ok i broke up wit my "ex" cuz things were never going well i done some things wrong didnt respect our relationship *** if u know what i mean *** cuz he was never paying attention and he just wouldnt care about anything important i had to say and that ive been thru a whole lot more than he has so he never understood how i felt about my past ... we had been dating for A yr LONG DISTANCE well a week after we broke up one of our real good friends confesses hes practically in love with mee ive liked him and i know i can fall in love wit him more but i dont know how my ex would take it or my parents even tho they respect him more than they have respected my ex ... we decided to take things slow and see from there ... im scared at the same time so happy and i just want everyone else to see that ... is this wrong ?? i do care about my ex and what he thinks cuz i kno ive hurt him so much and for him to even kno his friend LIKES mee would crush him :( im trying not to worry so much but its hard !!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Dear Poster
It is good to keep other people and there feelings in consideration but I suggest you need to relax. Be calm and focus on your new friend. If your ex does not like it or is not happy about it; well he had his chances to love you, value you and appreciate you and did not respect you or your wishes; let this be a lesson for him in life to learn from his mistakes. Don't waste to much time on how he feels and how he will react; rather focus your attention and your time on your new guy. He might become insecure and doubt your feelings for your ex if you ponder about him to much.
You have to let go and move forward; enjoy the new and the good in the present and value this new guy.
Best wishes and keep SMILING.
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